TheVerveHistory Posted February 9, 2009 Posted February 9, 2009 Hey all, Okay, so about a month ago my ex-gf broke up with me. There was no fight or anything, she literally did it out of the blue and never gave a reason aside from "I need to be on my own" and "I'm really stressed at work." She later on went to say she stilled loved/cared about me, was the "best bf ever" and wanted to be friends, which I wouldn't/couldn't do. We dated for about 7 months and truly felt strongly for each other. I was quite devastated and upset. My (idiot) best friend later on sent her a very nasty e-mail that pretty much sealed the deal, so we broke contact for good. So, now, after a month, she has texted me, saying she was not mad about the e-mail and thanking me (I helped her get a job interview as a synthetic chemist when we were dating and she was just offered the job). She then called me to tell me about her day at work. I don't know what to do. I'm not a mean person by nature but I don't know what her intentions are, and most definitely don't want to be hurt again. I can't be friends with her, because when she starts seeing other people that'll hurt big time, I do feel strongly for her but I don't know what she wants. I get happy when she calls/txts but at the sametime I want her to leave me alone and let the wound heal properly...
Geishawhelk Posted February 9, 2009 Posted February 9, 2009 Plain and simple, my friend. you go 100% 2-way No Contact. Done and dusted, sorted and that's the be all and end all of it.
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