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I recently met a girl online and we had a good first date at a nice restaurant. She is a manager and seems very confident. For a second date we had dinner and a movie and ended it with an awkward kiss. She paid for the dinner and I paid for the movie / snacks. She called me the next day and said we will have to work on the kiss and invited me for a homemade dinner at her house. She wasn't sure what she was making.

 

I'm not sure if I should get her a gift, I was thinking wine, but I don't know what she is making. Since it is only our third date should I even be getting her a gift? and valentines day is on Saturday, so should I wait for a gift till then? or skip it and only do a nice date since we are so new?

 

Thanks

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I'm not sure if I should get her a gift, I was thinking wine, but I don't know what she is making.

take one red and one white, but don't spend too much....around $15 for both should do it :)

 

Since it is only our third date should I even be getting her a gift?

whenever you go to someones place for dinner you should take something....date or not. and especially if you don't know them that well.

 

and valentines day is on Saturday, so should I wait for a gift till then?

you're not quite at the valentines day stage yet :lmao:

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take one red and one white, but don't spend too much....around $15 for both should do it :)

I fully agree with this. Bases covered regardless of what she's making, and then she has another bottle she can use later and she'll think of you when she opens it.

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take one red and one white, but don't spend too much....around $15 for both should do it :)

perfect solution, i really recommend taking this advice, unless she doesnt drink, then that might not work so well haha. the gesture will not go unnoticed, that's a promise!

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I fully agree with this. Bases covered regardless of what she's making, and then she has another bottle she can use later and she'll think of you when she opens it.

or they could both drink the two bottles, get hammered and then get down 'n dirty :lmao:

 

if you know what i mean, heh heh heh

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Def is curtious to bring something to someones house if invited for dinner. Some wine and small flower gift would be nice.

 

The wine goes with dinner (and thus will be for both of you), the flowers for her.

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take one red and one white, but don't spend too much....around $15 for both should do it :)

I get an impression that his lady is not that cheap.

you're not quite at the valentines day stage yet :lmao:

C'mon. I was once given a gift on a 2nd date, which happened to be Valentine. If anything, it's a good move that shows how serious he is with her.

 

OP, if you can afford it, get her a nice little thing from Kay.:)

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Def is curtious to bring something to someones house if invited for dinner. Some wine and small flower gift would be nice.

 

The wine goes with dinner (and thus will be for both of you), the flowers for her.

i would leave the flowers behind as its only a 3rd date....the vino is enough

 

OP, if you can afford it, get her a nice little thing from Kay.:)

surely you jest

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oh, never mind......

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