leedlee1 Posted February 9, 2009 Posted February 9, 2009 Ok we were together for 7.5 years lived together for 6 we were each others first loves and on 2nd nov 07 she left me for somebody else ive not heared a single word since this time from her. i have not tried to contact her since this time and always hoped she would get in touch or atleast say sorry for the pain she caused me, but i can trully say i did nothing wrong to her and was always there for her (good guy). do you think its likely she will ever contact me atleast to maybe see how i am or say sorry??
msjules Posted February 9, 2009 Posted February 9, 2009 You never know, it's hard to say. Do you live near each other? You might run into each other accidentally someday. I definitely wouldn't wait around for her to contact you, though.
msjules Posted February 9, 2009 Posted February 9, 2009 Oh and congratulations for maintaining no contact for all this time. That had to be tremendously difficult. Good for you!
Author leedlee1 Posted February 9, 2009 Author Posted February 9, 2009 Hi thanks for the reply, the no contact was difficult at first but im ok now, she moved quite far from me around 100 miles or so to another city, I no longer hold out hope as its been so long but still i find it hard to understand how somebody that once loved you for that ammount of time can simply dissapear without even saying sorry?
BCCA Posted February 10, 2009 Posted February 10, 2009 First, I give you a lot of credit. Complete NC is very hard, even moreso when youre not getting any attempts by the other person to contact you, either. I think youre doing a great thing for yourself. As far as sorry goes, look what youre asking for. You want a woman who hurt you, and knows she hurt you, to come back and face the pain she caused, and say she is sorry for it. Truth be told, shes probably not sorry at all. Maybe she will be someday, and maybe she'll try and say something then, but not likely. Chances are, shes made the decision that what she did is 'best for everyone' (mainly, her), and that it is what it is. My ex wouldnt even tell people she dumped me. Just 'it didnt work out'. Chances are, this girl views what happened in a very different light, and we all have a way of making what we've done not as bad as others might think it is. Would you be sorry for dumping someone that you didnt think was the right person to be with?
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