Overtime, you get used to being depressed and it's hard to jump out of it. U CAN WIN!

[Justmike101]

I noticed this pattern about myself. Ever since I broke up with her I've never really been able to go out and have fun. I was always feeling insecure and out of place whenever I hung out, even with my friends. It's been 7 months but it seems like yesterday. It didn't feel right while with her either. She never wanted to do anything in groups with my friends and I was always insecure that she was somehow doing shady things while I wasn't there. At times I'd only see her once a month, once every two weeks. I put so much effort into seeing her that I somehow became a doormat to her. I am gaining tremendous momentum and just realizing so many things. I just treated myself today to 200+ dollars worth of healthy food and gym routine to get ripped in the next 3 months. We really are a habit forming creatures and we must take active choices to get out of depression. Break ups are a terrible thing, especially to first timers like me, but I know there is a way out. I know I can win this. I know I don't need her. Yes she hurt me yes she abandoned me. But F her it's her loss.

[Knight_Ctrl]

Yeah man, I miss what my ex and I had. Miss it a lot. But at this point you're exactly right. **** them, we were great guys and these girls did the worst to us. They don't even deserve the honor of making us sad.