OCCDAVE Posted February 8, 2009 Posted February 8, 2009 This is a bit of an update to my last post about her texting me.she has taken it on herself to feel the need to text me numerous times guess her so called bf isn't giving her the time of day.past few nights I have gotten these Hey are you there Hey are u still awake Hi are u there Ya im here but I ignored all these u got someone why u feel the need to contact me at late hours is beyond me.I can't wait till after monday I have my stuff then lets see what her reason behind texting me is.the way I see it she has no one or its not what she wants otherwise no need to bug me u so called moved on or not.
Joyvke Posted February 8, 2009 Posted February 8, 2009 Hope you didn't actually reply on her. Just block and remove her from your life honestly. It will help you so much more in the long run.
Geishawhelk Posted February 8, 2009 Posted February 8, 2009 Let me give you a word of counsel. It doesn't matter a fig what your ex's problem is. it doesn't matter. It's exactly that. HER problem. Just read the text (if you must) and then delete. Ignore her overtures completely, and make like it's a wrong number but you're having a hard tome convincing the caller. or do what I sometimes advise others to do. Prepare a reply along these lines: "You have been barred from contacting this number by Text." That should make her good 'n' mad. If she calls you, reply, but say nothing and hang up immediately. I swear, after a couple of times, she should get it loud and clear.
Author OCCDAVE Posted February 8, 2009 Author Posted February 8, 2009 I have ignored her why should I reply she's not my friend or anything.she has shown she is beyond cold and can drop me so my turn to be cold im not gonna be ur doormat cause u got no one to talk to late at night. She also claims her bf is gonna be there monday if this is true how do I act without coming off as jealous
redmelon Posted February 8, 2009 Posted February 8, 2009 Why can't your property be left outside so you don't have to see either one of them?
Author OCCDAVE Posted February 9, 2009 Author Posted February 9, 2009 Why can't your property be left outside so you don't have to see either one of them?cause the value is to high. She texted me saying you know we could always be friends if you wanna chat feel free to contact me:rolleyes:
ColorCube Posted February 9, 2009 Posted February 9, 2009 Didn't you break up in November of last year? So in over 3 months you haven't gotten your stuff back? Why not? Is she dragging it out or is it you? I hope you show up on Monday and get your stuff back so you can put this to bed.
Author OCCDAVE Posted February 9, 2009 Author Posted February 9, 2009 Didn't you break up in November of last year? So in over 3 months you haven't gotten your stuff back? Why not? Is she dragging it out or is it you? I hope you show up on Monday and get your stuff back so you can put this to bed.Well for most of that time i was trying to get my mind back cause i didnt feel ready to face her.Other times i was out of town or it wasnt a good day for her so on.What do you think about her friend comment she made and why bug me when u have a bf go text him right ?
CaliGuy Posted February 9, 2009 Posted February 9, 2009 Well for most of that time i was trying to get my mind back cause i didnt feel ready to face her.Other times i was out of town or it wasnt a good day for her so on.What do you think about her friend comment she made and why bug me when u have a bf go text him right ? Dude just do the right thing and SEND A FRIEND to go pick it up. You don't owe her anything....
Author OCCDAVE Posted February 9, 2009 Author Posted February 9, 2009 Dude just do the right thing and SEND A FRIEND to go pick it up. You don't owe her anything....I know i dont just trying to figure why she continues to text me at all hours of the night and why did she mention friends when she knows we can never be friends.
Tryng2Trust08 Posted February 9, 2009 Posted February 9, 2009 Im sure she probably feels bad that she dropped you like she did...maybe she regrets her decision or trying to make herself feel better. But the bottom line is..Do you want her back!? Im sure she misses you, even when someone breaks up with the other, they still miss the other as a companion. I would send a friend to pick yur stuff up..and why would he bf need to be there anyway. This seems so petty and immature and I know you want better for yourself than this!
Author OCCDAVE Posted February 9, 2009 Author Posted February 9, 2009 I miss her a great deal but I couldn't take her back even if I wanted to.I think she is playing games or just flat out confused.I mean past few nights texting me then asking numerous times am I happy and in love.she said she was sorry I never said I forgive her cause if ur sorry have the guts and call texting is so immature.she text me yesterday saying this That new movie coming out looks awesome now if only I had someone to see it with Lol I thought u had a bf meh this girl confuses herself I feel at times
lonelygurl Posted February 9, 2009 Posted February 9, 2009 I miss her a great deal but I couldn't take her back even if I wanted to.I think she is playing games or just flat out confused.I mean past few nights texting me then asking numerous times am I happy and in love.she said she was sorry I never said I forgive her cause if ur sorry have the guts and call texting is so immature.she text me yesterday saying this That new movie coming out looks awesome now if only I had someone to see it with Lol I thought u had a bf meh this girl confuses herself I feel at times As I have said before....either go get your stuff and take a friend, or as caliguy said send someone....and stop putting it off. I told you last week to just show up. You know there are certain times she is home, and by the sounds of it, it isn't alot of stuff to get. She is playing games and is this what you want? you say you don't/won't take her back so end it! Get your stuff, block her or change your phone number/texting stuff or whatever. Playing games with these messages is just going to keep you in turmoil. Has she come out and said I love you, I miss you, I made a terrible mistake, can we try again???
Author OCCDAVE Posted February 9, 2009 Author Posted February 9, 2009 Has she come out and said I love you, I miss you, I made a terrible mistake, can we try again???Thats the point she hasnt so i guess that would mean she isnt looking to get back together just she has hinted us being friends.She also has called private numerous times besides the texting.
Author OCCDAVE Posted February 9, 2009 Author Posted February 9, 2009 Well lonlely I forgot to mention she did say she was very sorry and felt she had hurt me bad which was unfair.as for the rest of what u said no but I mean ur happy u claim why keep contacting me makes no sense. Btw think I did the right thing by ignoring her when she asked to be friends or wish she had someone to see a movie with
lonelygurl Posted February 9, 2009 Posted February 9, 2009 Well lonlely I forgot to mention she did say she was very sorry and felt she had hurt me bad which was unfair.as for the rest of what u said no but I mean ur happy u claim why keep contacting me makes no sense. Btw think I did the right thing by ignoring her when she asked to be friends or wish she had someone to see a movie with I'm telling you right now!!! I have been down this road!!! My X dumped me the first time and he played games with me and I allowed it for 2 months. We did the "friends" thing...had sex, did movies...yada yada yada.....then I found out he was seeing someone else (after the fact) and when he felt that was solid....I was OUT!!!!!!!!!!!! Three months down the road he emailed me this long message about how sorry he was for hurting me and dumping me and blah blah blah.....I never replied....I ignored. Sure I questioned and wondered why he emailed me at that time. People said he still loved me and stuff....but there was no..., I love you, I made a huge mistake, I want you back. A couple of weeks after that I decided that was it, I deleted that account so he could never email me again. Well about 2 weeks after that he tried to email, but it came back message undeliverable. He was too afraid to call on the phone, so he looked up a family member of mine through their work email online and emailed them wondering if it would be okay to contact me. Eventually I made the decision to meet with him to see why after all that time he was contacting me. Well that is when he said all the things...I'm sorry, I screwed up, I love you, you're the one, I want to marry you.... well blah blah blah....3.5 years later he betrayed me again!!!!!!!!!! get your stuff and f**k the rest of the **** she is putting you thru!!!! Until she commits to more than I want a friend and someone to go to the movies with....You need to cut contact NOW!!!!
Author OCCDAVE Posted February 9, 2009 Author Posted February 9, 2009 Im sorry to hear about that lonley he sounds like a jerk.Thats the thing the old doormat me would take her back but after what ive been through it would never be the same.I forgot to mention her text besides saying sorry i hurt you it was unfair also said i now know u loved me alot and im sorry?Ok its obvious i loved you yet in this text u wat never loved me cause ur not mentioning it?Yet again the daily text has come in this one is beyond heartless i feel As valentines day gets closer let those people who matter or mattered(lol)know your thinking about them.send this to all the people in ur life who made u smile at some point Talk about imature cause im sure people who mattered to u still need to be greeted even if you want notin to do with them ugh.Ill ignore this text cause what she fails to understand she no longer matters to me.
lonelygurl Posted February 10, 2009 Posted February 10, 2009 Im sorry to hear about that lonley he sounds like a jerk.Thats the thing the old doormat me would take her back but after what ive been through it would never be the same.I forgot to mention her text besides saying sorry i hurt you it was unfair also said i now know u loved me alot and im sorry?Ok its obvious i loved you yet in this text u wat never loved me cause ur not mentioning it?Yet again the daily text has come in this one is beyond heartless i feel As valentines day gets closer let those people who matter or mattered(lol)know your thinking about them.send this to all the people in ur life who made u smile at some point Talk about imature cause im sure people who mattered to u still need to be greeted even if you want notin to do with them ugh.Ill ignore this text cause what she fails to understand she no longer matters to me.b just keep ignoring her as you have been! Valentine's day doesn't bother me. I hate it, always have...always will. I think it is a blown up over commericalized day. Just the same as New Year's....hate that day/night too!
Author OCCDAVE Posted February 10, 2009 Author Posted February 10, 2009 b just keep ignoring her as you have been! Valentine's day doesn't bother me. I hate it, always have...always will. I think it is a blown up over commericalized day. Just the same as New Year's....hate that day/night too! I agree funny thing it wasnt a forward i know the difference with a normal text and a forward.Anyway i cracked up when i saw it saying those who mattered lol:p
Author OCCDAVE Posted February 10, 2009 Author Posted February 10, 2009 She still is texting me dunno what her deal is i have now gotten at least 1 text everyday for a week.
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