BobSacamento Posted February 8, 2009 Posted February 8, 2009 After a conversation with a girl I had, I got to wondering. She told me about this convo she had with some "creep". The basic background is she's thinking about moving and has a BF. Anyway after she tells me about this convo she had with this creep she comes back to tell me "Oh he also asked how my BF would feel, I said I could dump him, np." So the creep is totally into her, so I said "That must have put a smile on his face." Why would she go out of her way to tell me that and did she meant it? Do girls usually joke about that stuff? As you can guess I'm kind of into her and sort of the same vibe back. But we work together so it's not very wise. However, I despise missed opportunities. Needless to say I"M LOST!
sweetgirl99 Posted February 8, 2009 Posted February 8, 2009 I'm also lost...what was the conversation she had with the creep?? What did he say to her??
Author BobSacamento Posted February 8, 2009 Author Posted February 8, 2009 The convo was about what she wants to do with her life and how she looked good and asking her out. He's got like a family and stuff and is way older so it's kinda creepy as she has said. So she likes to talk to me about it. I guess maybe if she's in agony she wants to put someone else through it. Anyway that's really not the problem. I thought it was interesting she said she would leave her BF to the creep and then repeated it to me. It's like she's trying to keep her options open. Do women usually say that in jest?
SoulSearch_CO Posted February 8, 2009 Posted February 8, 2009 Do women usually say that in jest? I'm going to go with "no" in general unless she was already looking for a way out. That doesn't necessarily mean YOU'RE the reason she's looking at to get out of the R. She may just be voicing it out loud to see how it sounds to herself. Or she could just be a downright tease and likes to say things to watch guys squirm. Bottom line, though - don't even get involved at all until the BF is already history.
Island Girl Posted February 8, 2009 Posted February 8, 2009 She wanted to see YOUR reaction to what she said and she likes the attention from the "creep". She wouldn't get into these conversations with him if she didn't like the attention or think she could get something out of it -- whatever that is. She sounds like trouble. Believe me -- when I was young I was trouble so I can spot it a mile away. Do you like this girl? Because she is trying to get over on you too. Just don't get stuck.
alphamale Posted February 8, 2009 Posted February 8, 2009 She sounds like trouble. from the info presented I would tend to agree
dreamergrl Posted February 8, 2009 Posted February 8, 2009 I don't think she wants to leave her bf, I think she wants attention from any male that will give it to her.
Trialbyfire Posted February 8, 2009 Posted February 8, 2009 I don't think she wants to leave her bf, I think she wants attention from any male that will give it to her. Yup, the more scalps, the more she fuels her ego.
Geraltt Posted February 8, 2009 Posted February 8, 2009 She's playing you, BobSacamento. She's getting some sort of thrill by messing around with your feelings. Many, many women do this, it's extremely common, unfortunately. She's bad news all around. Avoid her as if she were a plague-infected blanket.
alphamale Posted February 8, 2009 Posted February 8, 2009 I don't think she wants to leave her bf, I think she wants attention from any male that will give it to her. eventually one of those men she craves attention from will become more interesting than her current selection...
dreamergrl Posted February 8, 2009 Posted February 8, 2009 Everyone wants to be wanted. Some people just take it a bit to far. They feel the need to soak up every bit of attention they can get. Not only may one of the guys she does this with may become more interesting, but eventually one is going to be be more then just creepy
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