Ryusaki Posted February 8, 2009 Posted February 8, 2009 I know this girl in my school. we barely talk to eachother in the halls and have no classes together this year. i started liking her last year where we had one class together. We’ve been talking a lot over msn and texting. When we talk on msn we always talk for at least 5 hours and text a lot too. However im to shy to talk to her at school and never got a chance to see her alone without her friends. I have PE Class with her, and she sometimes stares at me. Previously, i gave her a few stuff that our school hosts such as: Free Ice-Cream/Sundays, Candy Canes. I gave her this wire for her fone, i use to have the same fone as her [nokia n73] but mine was music edition. since i thought i dont use the fone anymore why not give her the "limited edition" music cord. I THOUGHT, it wasnt a big deal or anything however she told all her friends? i was very suprized. Recently our school is selling BBT [bubble Tea] for $3.75 [what a ripp eah?]. I thought it would be nice if i brought her one, so i txted her to ask what flavour she wanted.. But then she replied "it doesnt really matter, n u can safe the money=) i dun wana keep on getting things from u without doing anything =P, i appreciate u for asking thought, thx". That just lead me off, and i thought it was like a big GTFO or leave me alone? However i asked one of her bff's [best Friends] and she said she prob dont like pplz giving her alot of stuff witout her giving her in return but not for sure.. she also said she wouldnt be that suprized if she just wanted me to save money? and i thought thats total BS.. haha, at first i txted her that i would still buy it, but then i changed my mind and txt'd "I thought bout it, and i fink your rite. I'll stop buying you stuff from now on! haha". 2 months ago i had a chat with her, asking her to wear her glasses again just once [because she switched to contacts] and she said "mayb, but it will be very wierd and i already brought the contacts so i dont think so,haha =P" BUTT!! That day after i finished txting her that. SHE WORE HER GLASSES.. i thought to myself, haha wat a suprize mayb she ran outta contacts.. so i let it slip. But then the next day she wore contacts again.. o.o? I thought to myself, eather she is giving me a "hint" that she likes me or she got new contacts again.. but i thought you had to order contacts..? In Conclusion, sorrie that this is so very long, and please help me decode this and give me your opinions, suggestions on what to do, and help me using the things i just typed to make a conclusion of her liking me or not.. if it cant be helped i will confess to her.. but then it will be very wierd, if she rejects me and spread all around the school.. since she is pretty populare! haa
windows Posted February 12, 2009 Posted February 12, 2009 its quite simple. It's up to her. You clearly are too obsessed with her; overthinking every little strand that holds you to her. Step back mr highschooler. is she the type of person to spread nasty rumours or the person who has some sense of respectful decency? If she's the latter you have nothing to lose over pursuing her (she would politely decline and not fuss about it. Yes its possible; it happened to me). How old are you (and her) anyway? "2 months ago i had a chat with her, asking her to wear her glasses again... ". i mean a converstion from 2 months ago? You need to do something about this before (well it probably already has) this eats you up. Just ask her out. High school doesn't last forever so enjoy it while you can; all your embarrassments or triumphs will make you better for later in life. Don't worry about being rejected by her or something; everything always works out in the end (even if you may not get the girl). The worst thing is for a crush to never reach a resolution; do what I failed to do and conclude it. Getting rejected is much better than to hang in limbo.
Green Posted February 12, 2009 Posted February 12, 2009 seriously you need to talk to her in person and relize that its a bad idea to just keep buying things for a girl. You need to start asking her for stuff like to hang out. Then you need to just kiss her already, just go in and do it
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