t_chamber Posted February 8, 2009 Posted February 8, 2009 I met this girl in college through a friend before christmas. The first time she saw me it seems she was very interested in me. She introduced herself then she was asking a lot of questions about my personal life. We stayed contact after that then it was her birthday a few weeks after new year. I bought her a gift and i asked her out for coffee (friend date) and we went out. I bought her a drink and one for myself and we sat down had a long conversation about everything including family background and interests. We looked straight into each others eyes and she hold the gaze for a long time even though i stopped talking. That was the only time we spent time alone with each other. After that we haven't really talked because she was busy with her college work. But I realized the way she looked at me now is different to when we first met. She is much cool and quiet and i'm not sure why she acts that way. So I wonder if she doesn't like me romantically after i was showing signs that i like her more than just a friend or she was just being shy and waiting for me to ask her out?
norajane Posted February 8, 2009 Posted February 8, 2009 You should have asked her out that night. After all that gazing, at the end of the evening, you should have said, "when can I take you out again?" Since you didn't ask her out after that date, she probably assumed you weren't interested in her and cooled off to you. To her, it seemed like you met, you hit it off, you asked her out for coffee, you had a great time, and then you dropped her. Ask her out on a date. You might still be able to revive this.
Island Girl Posted February 8, 2009 Posted February 8, 2009 Ask her out on a date. If she says no you no longer have to examine and re-examine the actions and conversation, etc. If she says yes, then you have a date and the possibility of a relationship. All that will happen is she may say no. Big deal. You move on to another girl. There are plenty out there.
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