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morelaugh Established Member

morelaugh

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After reading some other threads, I came to conclusion that my own perception of this might be somewhat skewed.

So, I’m hoping to get some more accurate answers here.

 

 

I’d like to know:

  1. Have you ever had sex with an escort/prostitute?
  2. Would you?
  3. If you did, do you keep it hidden from the people you date/your SO?
  4. Would you sleep with someone who had paid for sex in the past?
  5. Would you date them?

TIA

GoneButNotForgotten Established Member

GoneButNotForgotten

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1) no

2) probably not

3) i would admit to other experience but probably not say anything about paying for it unless asked

4) don't know many girls that get to that stage, but I don't see why not if they are clean

5) Sure. The past is the past for a reason.

voldigicam Established Member

voldigicam

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  1. Have you ever had sex with an escort/prostitute?

Well, yes. During a curious phase while I was married to the "ice queen" - which I actually didn't invent as a term, it was from her coworkers! That would be 20 years ago. Several times.

 

And then, a couple of weeks ago I paid a college girl to masturbate for me, but we didn't have sex. I touched her a bunch. It was pretty cool. A bit weird.

 

  1. If you did, do you keep it hidden from the people you date/your SO?

Oh yeah!

 

  1. Would you sleep with someone who had paid for sex in the past?

Depends possibly on the details.

 

 

  1. Would you date them?

Well, probably unless there was some weird energy there. People go through all kinds of amazing phases.

Stockalone Established Member

Stockalone

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Have you ever had sex with an escort/prostitute?

 

No.

 

 

Would you?

 

No.

 

 

Would you sleep with someone who had paid for sex in the past?

 

No.

 

 

Would you date them?

 

No.

Trialbyfire Established Member

Trialbyfire

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  1. Have you ever had sex with an escort/prostitute? No.
  2. Would you? No.
  3. If you did, do you keep it hidden from the people you date/your SO? No.
  4. Would you sleep with someone who had paid for sex in the past? No.
  5. Would you date them? No.

Lizzie60 Established Member

Lizzie60

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Have you ever had sex with an escort/prostitute?

 

No.

 

Would you?

 

No.. Never had to pay for sex.

 

If you did, do you keep it hidden from the people you date/your SO?

 

Probably

 

Would you sleep with someone who had paid for sex in the past?

 

Yes

 

Would you date them?

 

Yes

Hi.P.O'Crit Established Member

Hi.P.O'Crit

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1. Have you ever had sex with an escort/prostitute?

No.

 

2. Would you?

No, my experiences with ONSs are disappointing enough without adding a

financial loss.

 

3. If you did, do you keep it hidden from the people you date/your SO?

Ask me no questions, I'll tell you no lies.

 

4. Would you sleep with someone who had paid for sex in the past?

I'd have to seriously question why a girl would have to pay for sex.

 

5. Would you date them?

Seriously doubt it.

Enema Established Member

Enema

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1) No

2) Yes

3) Would only do it while single, wouldn't lie to future partners about having done it.

4) Yes

5) Yes

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morelaugh Established Member

morelaugh

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Thanks to everyone who replied.

 

This changes my perspective a little.

Geraltt Established Member

Geraltt

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  1. Have you ever had sex with an escort/prostitute? yes
  2. Would you? well, yes. See above
  3. If you did, do you keep it hidden from the people you date/your SO? wasn't involved at the time, so there was no one to keep it from
  4. Would you sleep with someone who had paid for sex in the past? I only date women, and I've never known a woman that paid for sex.
  5. Would you date them? See above

I did date an ex-prostitute for a short time. It didn't last long but wowza...

fral945 Established Member

fral945

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1. Yes

1. Yes

3. N/A. Have never been involved with anyone when I used escorts.

4) Yes, depending on the situation. A whore beats a prude any day of the week.

5) Yes, depending on the situation.

Meaplus3 Established Member

Meaplus3

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  1. Have you ever had sex with an escort/prostitute? Not yet.:lmao:
  2. Would you? Me thinks NOT.
  3. If you did, do you keep it hidden from the people you date/your SO? If I did I would be so ashamed of myself that yes..I would keep it hidden.:o
  4. Would you sleep with someone who had paid for sex in the past? Nope
  5. Would you date them? No

Mea:)

Ariadne Established Member

Ariadne

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  1. Have you ever had sex with an escort/prostitute? No.
  2. Would you? Who knows.
  3. If you did, would you keep it hidden from the people you date/your SO? No.
  4. Would you sleep with someone who had paid for sex in the past? Yes.
  5. Would you date them? Yes.

OpenBook Established Member

OpenBook

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  1. Have you ever had sex with an escort/prostitute? Does a Cabana Boy count??
  2. Would you? No, seriously, I don't think I ever would. Too much danger of catching an awful disease.
  3. If you did, do you keep it hidden from the people you date/your SO? Heck yes! It's none of their business.
  4. Would you sleep with someone who had paid for sex in the past? Now how in the heck would I ever be able to verify that?!?
  5. Would you date them? Ditto - I would have no idea if they'd ever done that... and I don't expect them to tell me either.

That said - they had BETTER tell me beforehand if they have caught anything!! I don't need to know HOW they acquired it... just if they've got it or not.

 

Fortunately (VERY fortunately) I have never had to deal firsthand with AIDS or an STD. But I know there are many, many people out there who haven't been so lucky.

clv0116 Established Member

clv0116

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1. Have you ever had sex with an escort/prostitute?

 

Yes, I dated a few girls who were prostitutes at one time.

 

 

2. Would you?

 

See #1

 

 

3. If you did, do you keep it hidden from the people you date/your SO?

 

Well I didn't introduce her as "Jane, the ex-hooker".

 

 

4. Would you sleep with someone who had paid for sex in the past?

 

Any woman that has to pay for sex isn't gonna be getting attention from me.

 

 

5. Would you date them?

 

See #4

Ramrod Established Member

Ramrod

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After reading some other threads, I came to conclusion that my own perception of this might be somewhat skewed.

So, I’m hoping to get some more accurate answers here.

 

 

 

I’d like to know:

  1. Have you ever had sex with an escort/prostitute?
  2. Would you?
  3. If you did, do you keep it hidden from the people you date/your SO?
  4. Would you sleep with someone who had paid for sex in the past?
  5. Would you date them?

TIA

 

1. Yes. So many in fact I lost count, could be a hundred plus (I traveled quite a lot in my late twenties):)

2. Again, now that I'm middle-aged, no, I'd rather not. There are plenty of desperate, easy and sleazy women my age who give it up for free.;)

3. I will never tell. LOL (I am disease-free, so it's not germane):p

4.Absolutely not, no way. Ick!:sick:

5. Nope. :D

Lizzie60 Established Member

Lizzie60

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1. Yes. So many in fact I lost count, could be a hundred plus (I traveled quite a lot in my late twenties):)

2. Again, now that I'm middle-aged, no, I'd rather not. There are plenty of desperate, easy and sleazy women my age who give it up for free.;)

3. I will never tell. LOL (I am disease-free, so it's not germane):p

4.Absolutely not, no way. Ick!:sick:

5. Nope. :D

 

 

:laugh: Ick! .... So you're not 'datable' yourself.. :lmao:

Adunaphel Established Member

Adunaphel

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[*]Have you ever had sex with an escort/prostitute?
No (but I'm female)

[*]Would you?
No, I am no into casual sex at all, let alone paid sex.

If I were single and I had *a lot* of money to waste, though, I would probably be curious and hire a male escort. Not for sex, but for company/conversation/house chores/a laugh.

[*]Would you sleep with someone who had paid for sex in the past?

[*]Would you date them?

It depends.

I dated two guys who paid for sex in the past, but in both cases they told me it was a one-time experience that they did not enjoy and were not interested in doing again.

With someone who paid for sex more than once, I'd have issues.

clv0116 Established Member

clv0116

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"I didn't like it and I didn't inhale."

 

Sure. The hookers/strippers I dated where not acting in a professional role strictly speaking but it was the best sex I've ever had by a wide margin. I imagine they give customers a similar experience.

Naga Jolokia Member

Naga Jolokia

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1. Yes. So many in fact I lost count, could be a hundred plus (I traveled quite a lot in my late twenties):)

2. Again, now that I'm middle-aged, no, I'd rather not. There are plenty of desperate, easy and sleazy women my age who give it up for free.;)

3. I will never tell. LOL (I am disease-free, so it's not germane):p

4.Absolutely not, no way. Ick!:sick:

5. Nope. :D

 

So, you'd rather sleep with a promiscuous amateur who probably doesn't take good care of herself over a professional "call girl" (not a crack ho or truck stop lot lizard) who probably does since it's her livelihood?

 

And you'll be back here wondering why no one would date you.

 

Oh, and it's fine for you to sleep around with pros-- but not your dating partner? Double standard. Big turn-off.

 

Yeah, I predict that Ram will be back here whining about his latest and greatest breakup or lack of dates while the rest of the board sits here eating popcorn.

 

Good job, Ram. Way to shoot yourself in the foot, buddy.

 

*insert popcorn-eating smiley here*

 

(Note to Mods: I have a great animated one in my GIF collection if you're interested. It's very popular on my home board. I also have an animated laughing purple smiley that looks really cute that I'm willing to share... :))

Ramrod Established Member

Ramrod

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So, you'd rather sleep with a promiscuous amateur who probably doesn't take good care of herself over a professional "call girl" (not a crack ho or truck stop lot lizard) who probably does since it's her livelihood?

 

And you'll be back here wondering why no one would date you.

 

Oh, and it's fine for you to sleep around with pros-- but not your dating partner? Double standard. Big turn-off.

 

Yeah, I predict that Ram will be back here whining about his latest and greatest breakup or lack of dates while the rest of the board sits here eating popcorn.

 

Good job, Ram. Way to shoot yourself in the foot, buddy.

 

*insert popcorn-eating smiley here*

 

(Note to Mods: I have a great animated one in my GIF collection if you're interested. It's very popular on my home board. I also have an animated laughing purple smiley that looks really cute that I'm willing to share... :))

 

 

Okay, for starters, I was a salesman for a number of years, during this time I traveled a lot. I had no GF but a nice paycheck and plenty of time to kill and of course, was horny as heck.

 

I never banged a crack ho or truck-stop whore, not saying anything demeaning about them, their obviously wounded souls and I wouldn't feel right sticking it in their holes. Bad karma. But, I banged a lot of self-employed college age women who charged me out the wazoo for their time and my pleasure (think $200-$300 an hour).

 

I did briefly date a woman who had been whore, not a crack-whore, but not a paid escort. It didn't work out for a number of reasons, none of which had to due with the fact she was once a whore. We never had sex and I put an end to the relationship.

 

As far as my ever having sex with a woman who paid for sex, well, I'm not sure I wouldn't, come to think of it, because if a woman paid ME for sex I would likely jump right in. So, I retract one of my answers. As far as my ever coming here and pissing and moaning woe is me she x, y and z 'ed me, who knows, but I could care less what other people think about me.

 

I just like stirring the pot and I thrive on conflict. :p

Naga Jolokia Member

Naga Jolokia

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I just like stirring the pot and I thrive on conflict. :p

 

I think I'm in lust love... :love:

 

Wanna bone? The first one's free.

Ramrod Established Member

Ramrod

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I think I'm in lust love... :love:

 

Wanna bone? The first one's free.

 

 

Absolutely, whereabouts down south?

 

I spent almost twenty years in Texas and not all of that time was spent in jail, holler' at me.:)

Naga Jolokia Member

Naga Jolokia

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Absolutely, whereabouts down south?

 

I spent almost twenty years in Texas and not all of that time was spent in jail, holler' at me.:)

 

Texas... my, ain't that a co-winky-dink!! Spent-- er, several nights at the Graybar Hotel myself down here.

 

What part of Texas?

Ramrod Established Member

Ramrod

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Texas... my, ain't that a co-winky-dink!! Spent-- er, several nights at the Graybar Hotel myself down here.

 

What part of Texas?

 

Well, I worked personal protection down there, so, every now and agin, I wound up having a big boy timeout.

 

Brazoria County Correctional Center (2x), not as bad as it's rep makes it out to be, the milk was warm and chunky and the oatmeal was cold and watery, accomadations were fair to middlin. B+ (I always left feeling very well rested, and would gladly go back just to catch up on my sleep)

 

Harris County Men's Correctional Unit (4x), noisy, crowded, understaffed, but fresh fruit with lunch, ample tv, tasty cold drinking water from the fountains. C+

 

Galveston County Correctional Unit (3x?), too many drug addicts, staff was poorly trained and apathetic, glazed doughnuts and coffee for b-fast but the AC couldn't keep the place cold enough to reduce the manly odors. D-

 

I lived in Galvestown, Houston and parts in between. How'about you?

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