xatomicdollx Posted February 7, 2009 Posted February 7, 2009 My boyfriend of seven years left me three days ago. I'm really upset at the moment. Because i couldnt get a job and my driver lisence which i tried to do but didnt get call backs and failed. He said i didnt try hard enough and we werent progressing in life together because we lived in my parents house. We had plans to move into his parents old house that they moved out of because his parents recently got a divorce. We were going to rent it form his mom. He also said we saw things differently and told me he still loved me but that he was tired of me and wanted to start a new life. I wish i would of tried harder. I really want him to come bk so he can see i did try. when he came for his clothes he was being cold to me and wouldnt let me touch him. He said dont touch me. I asked him can i at least have one last hug. he said ok then i broke down in tears and he hold me tightly and for a second it felt as though he felt bad for what he was doing to me and quickly let go and said thats enough. then he left. He wants no contact with me he cutting our phones in two months and changing his number. He's told me before on all his ex's he builds hate for them to get over them quicker and i think thats what hes doing to me. All because i didnt have a job or my driver lisence and he felt like i wasnt trying. He felt alone. which isnt true because we did everything together we lost touch with friends and all we had was eachtoher then he met new friends and and now he has a house and new life that we were both longing for and he decided to leave me out of it. I still have hope he'll come bk even though he said its never going to happen. If for some weird reason it did ok but he said not to put my hopes up and to let go. Im so upset. Now that he's gone im alone and friendless. I have nothing and have to start from scratch. its so weird and sad. what do you all think about this?
wuggle Posted February 7, 2009 Posted February 7, 2009 He's told me before on all his ex's he builds hate for them to get over them quicker and i think thats what hes doing to me.? If a guy can do this, especially after being together for 7 years then I say let him go, in fact help him leave, then thank your lucky stars. The only type of person I know who can do this is a sociopath and you are better off without him.
ate_the_paint Posted February 9, 2009 Posted February 9, 2009 I wish there was a way to make you feel better right now. Your story is sad and all too familiar. By now you must have read other's posts and you'll see that No Contact is the way to go, for your own health. Stick around LoveShack for a while and you'll find a great support network. Are you able to reestablish relations with your friends? That will be a great help, as well. One thing everyone here can tell you is that in time you will, in fact, feel a lot better than you do right now. Keep posting and let us know how you're doing!
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