pandagirl Posted February 7, 2009 Posted February 7, 2009 ...can go a long way. I learned that he is now dating a girl who previously dated his friend for three years, about a month after their break-up. Lost his friend and he doesn't even seem to care. He's been wanting to hangout lately to try to be friends, but after I heard that I realized -- while all is fair in love and war -- a person I admire and respect would never act so selfishly. I don't need a "friend" like that!
EmperorR Posted February 8, 2009 Posted February 8, 2009 Yep a lttle bit of information can really help in going nc and moving on faster, as well as kicking someone that high off the pedastool/
sedgwick Posted February 8, 2009 Posted February 8, 2009 That sounds really icky. What kind of person would do that to a friend? And, okay, I just have to say: there is no "stool" in the word "pedestal." The other day I saw someone on here spell it "pedal stool" and about had to put my eye out with a fork. Luckily I had other things to do and narrowly avoided enucleation.
Dumbledore Posted February 8, 2009 Posted February 8, 2009 I learned that he is now dating a girl who previously dated his friend for three years, about a month after their break-up. Lost his friend and he doesn't even seem to care. Don't you think that his "friend" should have sucked it up and been happy for him? Sounds like he had to dive in and secure the deal before some other random dude beat him to it. Any true friend should be able to respect that. The circumstances of the breakup also matter. If he dumped her, then she's fair game from the get-go.
Author pandagirl Posted February 8, 2009 Author Posted February 8, 2009 Don't you think that his "friend" should have sucked it up and been happy for him? Sounds like he had to dive in and secure the deal before some other random dude beat him to it. Any true friend should be able to respect that. The circumstances of the breakup also matter. If he dumped her, then she's fair game from the get-go. I agree it all depends on the circumstances, but his response to the situations was: "Eh, it wasn't like we were that close anyway" (this is someone he's known for a LONG time). If it was more like: "It's too bad I lost a friend, but I really liked her," or "I've always had a thing for her and had to see what happened," I would've had a better reaction, but it was so callous to me to show absolutely *no* remorse in the situation.
Dumbledore Posted February 8, 2009 Posted February 8, 2009 I see your point. Still, we all love the bad boys.
Author pandagirl Posted February 8, 2009 Author Posted February 8, 2009 I see your point. Still, we all love the bad boys. Granted, I like the bad boys, too! I guess I like the idea of guys being superficially "bad," but at the core, essentially good, moral people.
lonelygurl Posted February 8, 2009 Posted February 8, 2009 I see your point. Still, we all love the bad boys. depends on the definition of the "bad boy". I like badboys to a point. Not ones that cheat, or steal, or in this situation date a good friends girl and then try to keep an X as a friend. That is just a "dog". My X was a badboy to me, but that was because he had plenty of tattoo's, liked kinky sex and more.
Author pandagirl Posted February 8, 2009 Author Posted February 8, 2009 depends on the definition of the "bad boy". I like badboys to a point. Not ones that cheat, or steal, or in this situation date a good friends girl and then try to keep an X as a friend. That is just a "dog". Eh. To each their own. I'm just glad I saw his true colors. It's not a matter of thinking I'm better than someone, than just realizing we are very different people when it comes to certain things. It's funny, when he said he didn't want to date me anymore, he remarked: "It's like I finally found this nice girl...it makes me feel like there's something wrong with me." HA!
sedgwick Posted February 8, 2009 Posted February 8, 2009 depends on the definition of the "bad boy". I like badboys to a point. Not ones that cheat, or steal, or in this situation date a good friends girl and then try to keep an X as a friend. That is just a "dog". My X was a badboy to me, but that was because he had plenty of tattoo's, liked kinky sex and more. Ooo, by that logic, I must be a bad boy! (Although I have no apostrophe in my tattoos.)
Zammo25 Posted February 8, 2009 Posted February 8, 2009 I see your point. Still, we all love the bad boys. Case proved and closed. This is EXACTLY what I said about Women.
Montie Posted February 8, 2009 Posted February 8, 2009 Not true. Only a certain segment of women really like bad boys. Most DON'T.
DJMarky Posted February 9, 2009 Posted February 9, 2009 Ooo, by that logic, I must be a bad boy! (Although I have no apostrophe in my tattoos.) Hahaha. Most of your posts are correcting, well, making fun of other people's grammar. I love how you weren't afraid to admit you are kinky in bed.
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