checkher150 Posted February 6, 2009 Posted February 6, 2009 I find myself doing this every once in a while. She broke up with me and I dont know why I do it. Its a video I took of us having sex. Is this delaying my progress of getting over her? I imagine it is. Does anyone else do this? Thats what I want to know. Thanks
Knight_Ctrl Posted February 6, 2009 Posted February 6, 2009 dump it man. I had nudes of my ex that I deleted the same day I deleted, burned, and otherwise destroyed anything that had to do with us.
EmperorR Posted February 7, 2009 Posted February 7, 2009 Get rid of it, I threw away all the pictures , videos etc of me and my ex and all the little cleavage shots etc she sent me. You will always be tempted to look at them, once you get rid of it, of course some days you will be like crap I should have kept it but then you know it was for the best.
burning 4 revenge Posted February 7, 2009 Posted February 7, 2009 the worst is when you masturbate bitterly to fantasies of her with somone else (because you know shes doing someone else) try it sometime. its fun like this smileyface
Ramrod Posted February 7, 2009 Posted February 7, 2009 I find myself doing this every once in a while. She broke up with me and I dont know why I do it. Its a video I took of us having sex. Is this delaying my progress of getting over her? I imagine it is. Does anyone else do this? Thats what I want to know. Thanks Your not alone my man! Not only will I do it to the porns we made, I will rub one out from memory. This one skank broke my heart, busted me up for a couple of years but my lord did she have a butt on her. I hate her guts don't get me wrong, but if she rolled past my place tonight and wanted to get down. I'd put aside those feelings and take it to her with a vengence. I know it's hard to reconcile with yourself, for me it's also curiosity, because when I think about her in a non-sexual sense I get angry, bitter and mean, but every so often, when I'm feeling horny...she crosses my mind. Again, I have been with quite a few women, and had some bad break-ups, and the one with her was the absolute worst for me emotionally. I almost went off the deep end if you know what I mean, think orange coveralls. But, again, she had the most smoking hot rump you ever seen. Ahhh, she was fine lil wh*re, um um umm.
Author checkher150 Posted February 7, 2009 Author Posted February 7, 2009 the worst is when you masturbate bitterly to fantasies of her with somone else (because you know shes doing someone else) try it sometime. its fun like this smileyface Yeah, I don't understand this but sense the breakup I have masturbated to the thought of her being used bye 2 or 3 guys at the same time. Is this a mechanism to degrade her in my thinking.
Knight_Ctrl Posted February 7, 2009 Posted February 7, 2009 so it is true, were all bat**** crazy lol
joh2141 Posted February 7, 2009 Posted February 7, 2009 Yeah, I don't understand this but sense the breakup I have masturbated to the thought of her being used bye 2 or 3 guys at the same time. Is this a mechanism to degrade her in my thinking. Possibly, or it could just be that you haven't fully moved on or you just are like all normal guys. You shouldn't think too much on it. I mean doing this about your ex and you are in the slightest bit resentful to the fact that you two aren't together means you should get rid of the tape and never even attempt to do it again. But if it's something with no emotions or strings attached, even if it's just a video tape, then go for it. Who are we to stop you? It's just not that healthy to keep this up.
Trialbyfire Posted February 7, 2009 Posted February 7, 2009 IMO, this is almost a way to keep the relationship alive, in that it maintains the bonding process. Ditch the tape and any pictures you're staring at, whether it's to isolate them in a separate external backup drive of some form or a permanent deletion. This isn't healthy for your healing process until you've fully moved on and it's nothing but porn.
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