lolem22 Posted February 6, 2009 Posted February 6, 2009 Hi everybody, I and he first met when both of us applied to an MBA program and we were waiting for the interview.Although I looked really tired at that time ( I had just come back from a long business trip ), he kept staring at me with a gentle smile and said "Good-bye" when I left even though I didn't say anything to him. I have to say that he caught my eyes because he looks very bright and elegant. But I didn't expect that I could meet him again. However, it was a surprise that I and he joined in the same class. When he first saw me in the class, he exhibited happiness on his face. Since then, there have been many signs to show that he likes me : He can't take his eyes off me; When we are face to face, he looks into my eyes really deeply; He smiles at me whenever he sees me; He always starts a conversation and tries to talk to me as much as he can; He always talks to me with the sweetest voice I have ever heard; He flirts with me much; He mentions my name many times during our conversation--softly and tenderly. He called me 'M'lady', and 'my dear Lucie' all the times; He sets dates with me ; He touches my body accidentally many times and so on. The problem is that I found that he is currently in a relationship. His gf is so beautiful. I didn't want to be involved in a threesome, so I decided to stay away from him. Although I locked away my heart and pushed him far away, he stayed with me. The more I try to keep distance from him, the more he tries to get close to me. A half year passed, he still keeps chasing me. I told him the reason why I was so cold to him, and he asked " If I reconsider my relationship status, will you change your behavior, my dear Lucie? " I am confused because I realize I am getting interested in him. I don't understand why he has a such beautiful gf but still chases me. Does he really like me or he just wants to play with me? How do I know he is honest ? I am afraid of being fooled by him. What should I do now ? Thank you very much for your answer. Wish you all the best in your lovelife. Lucie.
prettybaby Posted February 6, 2009 Posted February 6, 2009 Uh, plain and simple: tell him to give you a call when he's single, and not to bother talking to you until then.
Author lolem22 Posted February 6, 2009 Author Posted February 6, 2009 Thank you for your advice, but it is difficult because we are in the same class, we are face to face everyday.
BCCA Posted February 6, 2009 Posted February 6, 2009 Here is my honest take on it: If you were his girlfriend, how would you feel? Because if the roles did in fact reverse, and you and he got together, what's to say he doesnt do the same thing all over again? Actions also speak louder than words. If he was really truly interested, he would have gotten out of the relationship first. By not doing so, hes obviously hedging his bets with someone. Is it you or the other girl? Who knows. I would actually agree with the statement about telling him to give you a call when hes single. You dont have to be a total b***h about it, but nicely say, 'you seem like a really good guy, but if youre serious about being interested in me, you need to be single. until then, I just have to assume that youre happy in your current relationship'. End of story.
Author lolem22 Posted February 7, 2009 Author Posted February 7, 2009 Thank you very much for your helpful advice ! Have a nice weekend !
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