sh22 Posted February 6, 2009 Posted February 6, 2009 A friend introduced me to a guy a couple months ago (we went on a double date with her and her husband). We have gone on 3 additional dates since then and have talked on the phone. He has recently started talking to me about "spending the night" and such. I am a relatively cautious person. I also still don't know how I feel about him. He is a nice guy but he works for his dad and spends a lot of time with his parents. He doesn't have many hobbies and isn't involved with any organizations or outside clubs. I am currently involved with a variety of different groups and travel a lot for work and to visit friends. I am thinking that he would be eventually be "jealous" because I have a life outside of "him". I have a feeling that any relationship with him would be awkward because of this. Also, I don't feel that physically attracted to him as I have other men that I have been interested in. I haven't dated that much so I don't have a lot of experience to draw from. I just want a man that is sensitive and interesting. The more I find out about him the less I am interested in pursuing a long term relationship. The situation is weird because my friend set us up. What should I do?
Geishawhelk Posted February 6, 2009 Posted February 6, 2009 Dump him. Say thanks but no thanks. What's so hard about that? You don't owe your friend anything. if you don't click, you can't force it to happen. Bail out now before he gets too hopeful.
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