mc1127 Posted February 6, 2009 Posted February 6, 2009 i started seeing this guy a few weeks ago and everything was great until i noticed that our communication started slowly dropping off. i didn't want to come off as needy so i didn't try to overcompensate on my end. however, i did want him to know that i was still interested so i made the effort to e-mail and call a few times. when i asked him why we weren't talking he just said he had been busy and sick and didn't mean to upset me, which was a valid excuse but i can't help but think it's not really good enough. anyway, i'm pretty sure he's lost interest at this point and i am just wondering how to back out of the situation without being awkward or mean, but still leaving the field open for a possible friendship (i still like him!). can there even be a friendship?! we are still talking a little bit but not often. i guess i'm wondering if i should even bother. i don't understand guy psychology at all
royalflush Posted February 6, 2009 Posted February 6, 2009 I've been in a similar situation recently, just the other way around, I'm a guy. I know what you mean about not wanting to push the whole gf/bf thing, since the interest seems to have dropped from her end, but I still enjoy her company. Although I'm now coming to the realization that friends might not be possible either, for some reason. I just don't understand how somebody can have good conversation, and seem very interested at one point, and in the next not even want to be friends? It's weird, I'm wondering the same thing you are, and i don't understand girl psychology at all. Well this probably doesn't help you at all but, I suppose you're not alone, if that's means anything.
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