FtrV8 Posted February 6, 2009 Posted February 6, 2009 Hello everyone, I am just posting this to get other people's view on if I should or should not ask her out for Valentines 2009. A bit of background (I'll try to keep it short as possible): Met this girl in 2005 at a local club, at first I tried to talk to her but her friends pulled her away, then later on in the night she asked me to take her away from another guy, and the whole night after was just fire! We went out for about a week and it was just wonderful in every sense of the word. We both liked each other a lot! But because I knew some of the same people that knew her, I knew she had a son yet the whole week we went out none of us talked about it (did not matter to me). She finally told me that I should have mentioned to her I knew about the kid, because she did not know how to let me know, and because she did not want to scare me. We cut off ANY contact between us. Fast forward to late 2006, we started to text each other and met up again, and made out, and she asked me to go to a wedding, I did say yes, but the weekend of the wedding I had to back out because of a real good reason, needless to say she was extremely upset and again we stopped all contact etc, because she thought I was lying to her. Earlier this year I sent her an email wishing her happy new year, and she suggested we meet up for lunch and we did so. I took it upon myself to clear the air up, so after we had a wonderful time at lunch chatting it up (where she did tell me she decided to try and work things out with her son's father and so she is currently involved and asked my status), I showed her proof on why I could not make it to the wedding. She apologized several times for not believing me etc, and specifically mentioned we put that behind us, and I did. Since then I hung out with her three times, going to lunch etc. Last time I texted her asking her, "if she is busy on a Sat?" She texted back, asking why. I simply stated, that I would like to take her out to lunch. Her response was, "are you asking me out????????" I said yes and what's wrong with that. Her response was, "I would love to but I am busy Saturday, although I am free Monday." So we went out Monday. I still have deep feelings for her and have always thought that things kept getting off in the past to a wrong start, but she is not involved (not sure if she is happy or not, but that's not my concern). Question is should I go after her, ask her out for Valentines, or just let it be, given that I've given her plenty of hints that I still like her a lot. Play it safe or take the risk, any insight or suggestions are much appreciated! Thank you in advance for reading this as well!
Ria10 Posted February 7, 2009 Posted February 7, 2009 Sure, why not? Asking her out for Valentine's Day is a sure way to find out if she's interested and/or available.
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