kashmir Posted February 6, 2009 Posted February 6, 2009 This girl I'm dating will not do anything sexual. It's driving me nuts. While we were vigorously making out I slipped my hand down her pants and she forced it out. I put it back in and she took it out. I tried one more time very assertively and she stopped, told me "NO," and then went right back to grinding on my groin and swabbing spit with me. She's a fricking tease. I can't take it. She wants to be exclusive now. She tells me every day how much I turn her on and how cute I am. SCREW ME THEN GOD DAMNIT!!! Or at least don't build it up to the point where only YOU want it. I'm going to start approaching some of the hotties I see around classes bi-weekly. Hopefully they'll put out. If she doesn't like it, then so be it, at least I'll be getting some.
mr.dream merchant Posted February 6, 2009 Posted February 6, 2009 Yeah teases suck ass. I knew a girl like this once. I'd be over at her place, pants off, her ass in the air and she would not for the life of her let me stick it in, just wave her naked vagina around infront of me giggling and ****. Some girls I'll just never get. She still texts me to this day wondering when I'm going to ask her out lmao...
sid3 Posted February 6, 2009 Posted February 6, 2009 It can't be bothering you too much as you choose to stay with her. Your looking for a girl with compatible beliefs about sex sounds like a better option.
Author kashmir Posted February 6, 2009 Author Posted February 6, 2009 Well I like her as a person, and she told me a while ago that she doesn't have sex. I thought I could change her mind with a little stimulation, but her will to not have sex seems to be much stronger than her urges. I don't want to hurt her. She's a nice girl, but she needs to realize my needs aren't being met.
fishtaco Posted February 6, 2009 Posted February 6, 2009 Red flag. If a woman doesn't want sex with you, she shouldn't go there. Although what counts as "going there" is sort of gray, the fact that she pulled your hand out, said no, and went right back to it would count as a bad sign. She's probably the type to use sex as a manipulation tool. In fact, that's probably what she's doing with you. Do with her however you wish, but hitting up on other girls is definitely the right thing to do.
movingonandon Posted February 6, 2009 Posted February 6, 2009 Dude, I thought you dumped her azz weeks ago What are you still doing with her? It doesn't even matter what her motives are... If you stick with her it creates a twisted dynamics in the relationship, the summary of which is "whipped", IMO. Tell her that if she thinks she isn't having sex, she's sorely mistaken, and the man upstairs doesn't approve
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