datura_noir Posted February 5, 2009 Posted February 5, 2009 Background: My hubby's twin has been married for over 20 years. She went through a physically debilatating event about 15 years ago; and he just went through a leukemia bout. They have four kids, 3 boys and one girl; all are on their own. Hubby has never been that close to his twin;I mean,close in the sense of keeping in contact regularly, and doing things together. He has that type of bond with his older brother. Now for the problem: I wish he would support their marriage more-yes, she is addicted, but she is so much fun and we all love her! Obviously, he sides with his brother, but she has been going through alot and I want to reach out. My husband doesn't want me to. But that won't stop me. We all grew up together; she and I share a history though not close, it's such a small (microscopic) town that we are all inter-connected. I want to help them (her) to re-connect. They have 4 kids and 4 grandkids. I think she is such a good person. So is he. Help??
Heroic Posted February 10, 2009 Posted February 10, 2009 Addicted? What is their problem? You can't solve other peoples problems that only happens in Hollywood movies. All you can do is set an an example and lend an ear for most issues.
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