johan Posted February 7, 2009 Posted February 7, 2009 Just find the guy who excites you least. He will be the nice one.
Author blondesmiler Posted February 7, 2009 Author Posted February 7, 2009 I also know women who sign up for those sites when theyre pissed at their bf, and really have no intention of meeting anyone. Just another way to get some easy attention without even leaving the house. Why would anyone do that, thats awful and spoils it for us geniune people who would really like to find someone.
Author blondesmiler Posted February 7, 2009 Author Posted February 7, 2009 Well a lot of 30-something women who haven't really taken care of themselves seem to expect every 30-something successful career man should just find them fascinating. They need to understand that what (most) men value in a mate is vastly different than what women value. Men look and women differently than women look at men. If you're a woman past 29 and still looking you have to realize you are competing for men with a bunch of women in their early to mid 20s. Good luck. Go with God. Is god good in bed then? (kidding) I do look after myself, and look good, dress very well and am always looking my best. I also look alot younger than my age. Have a great personality still seems to not be enough. I think the key is too widen my social circle, knowing someone or being introduce seems to be the way forward and as none of my current friends have never done that (for whatever reason, maybe they just don't know anyone) then I must widen that circle. Just have to find the time
Confusedalways Posted February 8, 2009 Posted February 8, 2009 I follow this: You can tell a lot about a person by the way he/she handles four things: a rainy day, the elderly, lost luggage, and tangled Christmas tree lights.
johan Posted February 8, 2009 Posted February 8, 2009 I follow this: You can tell a lot about a person by the way he/she handles four things: a rainy day, the elderly, lost luggage, and tangled Christmas tree lights. That's an interesting idea. I handle those things differently depending whether there is anyone around to see me. I would also add "genitals" to the list and make it five.
Touche Posted February 8, 2009 Posted February 8, 2009 I follow this: You can tell a lot about a person by the way he/she handles four things: a rainy day, the elderly, lost luggage, and tangled Christmas tree lights. I absolutely love this! Here's how it is for H and I: Rainy Day...we're both cool with that. The elderly...I have zero patience, he's a saint. Lost Luggage...we're both lunatics. Tangled Christmas Lights...no big deal to me..HUGE deal to H - he goes postal!
Nagini Posted February 18, 2009 Posted February 18, 2009 i think the Waiter Rule is great my soon to be exbf treats waiters badly
nicki Posted February 18, 2009 Posted February 18, 2009 The best way: Do his words match actions? That takes time to see. Until then, see if he takes care of his responsibilities. Is he a good employee? On time? Truthful? Hardworking? Takes care of his family? Pay his childsupport (if applicable)? See if he lies to others to stay out of trouble, or out of simple convenience. If he does, he will lie to you. Does he pay his bills? I know it sounds simple, but that's all you have to go on in the beginning.
nicki Posted February 18, 2009 Posted February 18, 2009 Oh, yes, the waiter treatment test is a MUST! I always watch to see how he treats ALL people, not just the ones he wants to impress. Does he tip well? Respectful to everyone, maids, taxi drivers, CEOs, etc. Watch how they treat children and animals, too. Says a lot about how they treat helpless beings.
collegekid491 Posted February 18, 2009 Posted February 18, 2009 Nice and Genuine? (I can barely spell that ) Honestly, you don't know till you open them up, we are like a box of chocolates, you never know what your gonna get next! I mean, ask my gf, sure I was a nice guy, but after v-day she hasn't looked at me the same saying she never saw that hopeless romantic side. Ironically enough, I got alot of friends that are regular prince charming's and they have never had more then 1 gf ever. Generally girls want a little more... then just a nice genuine guy, and once you get one you get bored of him. Do I sound bitter? lol
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