bella23 Posted February 5, 2009 Posted February 5, 2009 Here's the deal my bf just got promoted and moved to a new work place. He has to work a lot, since the store isn't open yet. But when he does get a chance we meet up or he comes by and it's getting on my nerves that he's always getting text or family member calls him. without kidding he can be here for an hour, and his phone seems worse than a 1-800 hotline. His family also calls him around the clock it's driving me insane (they don't live with him or in US). Sometimes he doesn't answer his calls but if he doesn't the phones keeps ringing and times flies like nothing. Am I asking too much for attention or what?
SoulSearch_CO Posted February 5, 2009 Posted February 5, 2009 Well, if he's not always answering it, what's the problem? It bothers you to even hear it ringing? If that's the case, maybe ask him if you can have about an hour of uninterrupted time with him - phone turned off. But if that's not possible because of the work thing (i.e., he has to be available ALL THE TIME just in case), then you're just going to have to deal with it. It sucks, but you're early enough in the R that if it's going to cause contention between you two, you can cut your losses now instead of getting upset with him later on. Oh, shoot - sorry - you didn't even mention how old this R is. LOL That makes a difference. But the advice still stands. Decide now rather than letting the resentment build.
Author bella23 Posted February 6, 2009 Author Posted February 6, 2009 3 month... but friends for a year... and funny thing is before it didn't bother me... but now that we're in this R.... it kinda bug me. Well he does have it on silent sometimes... or when he remembers. I think that you can't have it all lol... Thanks though
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