wholesalehottubs Posted February 5, 2009 Posted February 5, 2009 I have been dating this girl for 3 months.. fell in love with her... there is a ex involved, she doesnt see him, but now that he knows she is with someone( which im the first guy she told her ex she was with) he is full bore up her butt... we have had some drama because of the ex.... i dropped talking about him.. she kept telling me he is not right for her, and all the family and friends cant stand him etc... he is a real douch bag jerk... anyway she has hit me like 3 times with she doesnt know what she wants, and wants space. well i give her the space.. and she calls and says she misses me, and i go back. well this is the 3rd time she hit me with space... this time she has tried to stay in contact... eamiling me etc... i just told her that im real busy, have a great day, ttyl... i havent heard from her in 3 days... we already talked about marrriage, etc... yes i as needy to her, and treated her like a queen... she also said i was the most amazing guy she has ever been with, but there is to much going on within this 3 months... that she wants it to go smooth and its not... ill explain why.. she got pregnant, and wanted a abortion, i cried to her and begged heer not to have the abortion, but if thats what she really wanted, then i will support her. which i did, and i took care of her... well that same night we got a prank call from one of my friends, saying it was her ex and that she was pregnant with his baby... we got in a huge fight, and then we found out it was a prank... the next morning i get hit with i need space and a break from all this, wth everything that has recently happened... i said ok, but wwas upset about it... what is going on? will she come back? i have not called her or text anything at all... is it true that when space is there, that she will forget the bad things and remember the good? one more thing... monday she emailed me, and i ignored it, because i thought she was going to string me along. she then emailed me again and asked if i got her email, becasue she was wondering why she hasnt heard from mme. thats when i said that i have been real busy... havennt hearr from her since... thought please... tell me how to get her back...
laRubiaBonita Posted February 5, 2009 Posted February 5, 2009 :lmao::lmao: no thoughts, sorry! but what i SAW... me and my dyslexia was your screen name... to me, i read wholesalebuttholes.... i just love my afflictions sometimes!
HappyAgain Posted February 5, 2009 Posted February 5, 2009 So is she still pregnant or not? It was your baby, you've only been with her three months, her ex is involved, she's broken up three times and you still want this psycho back? Are you really in love with her or infatuated? What do you see in someone who has so many problems?
Author wholesalehottubs Posted February 5, 2009 Author Posted February 5, 2009 no she is not pregnant anymore.. i cried my eyes out to her and told her to quit her job, whatever she wants, that i will take care of her and the baby... she knows i make enough to do so... yes i want her back real bad, and yes i love her very much.... i have no contacted her at all. the other day when she emailed me the second time saying that she was wondering why she hasnt heard from me... doesnt that mean she is worrying i will just vanis? my respose was, yes i got it, but its extremely busy at work, i hope you are having a great day, ttyl... she responded saying, good for you, i hope you have a great day yoo. ciao! does she think i was suppose to call because i said ttyl? i just want to call so bad, but feel like it will be a mistake, but i also feel that not calling is a mistake also... please some help here to get her back would be great... by the way she has not gone out with her ex, since she broke up with me, that i know for a fact...l
Author wholesalehottubs Posted February 5, 2009 Author Posted February 5, 2009 update... I emailed her today.." I miss you Lisa" she said... Hi, Billy. How are you? I have been thinking of you...
SRV Posted February 5, 2009 Posted February 5, 2009 Dated 3 months and all this drama?? Are you really sure you want more of this in the long term, the roller coaster ride that its turning out to be? Can you seriously assess your short term vs long term goals based on the 3 months? You might need to step back and weigh this from a rational rather than emotional point of view. Best of luck!
socialight Posted February 5, 2009 Posted February 5, 2009 i think both of you need to quit drinking.
angelus Posted February 7, 2009 Posted February 7, 2009 dude...this girl is loaded with red flags and lucky for you I have dated a girl almost exactly like this before minus the pregnancy. She dated you and was talking with her ex...dude that is a huge no no. It shows lack of respect for you and your feelings. you say you are in love with her? trust me its not love its infatuation, kinda like you are in love with the idea of her but not her exactly. Meaning you like having a girlfriend. Here is a good formula for love.. Love=honesty, caring, respect and loyalty If any of these things are missing....then you don't love her and she doesn't love you. It's that simple. She is playing games with you man....playing the i'm confused card. She is confused she knows exactly what you she is doing. She is testing you to see how much she can get away with. The minute you start to slip away.....she reel you back in..like when she told you she misses you. Boom!!! right there your brain is like...awww man she is coming around, maybe it'll be different this time. She won't change ever. Unless she changes on her own. The first 3 months of a relationship should be exciting and fun....you shouldn't be having these problems 3 months in. The most you should be arguing about right now is who gets too pick the movie on your next date. Let her go man.......she is worthless.
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