wholesalehottubs Posted February 4, 2009 Posted February 4, 2009 I met this girl about 4 months ago. We hit it off great... ok problem here is she has a ex involved that all her friends including her family cant stand... she has done nothing but complain how he is a narcasist... Anyway, I am the first guy she liked since him, and all of her friends and family like as well... We were going good, until the drama of her ex kept contacting her. I am the first guy she told him she was with someone else... Anyway, im going to make this short... This is the third time she has told me she wants space... I have givin it to her and did not call her at all everytime, and she came back to me saying I miss you... Ok so this time there was some drama involved.. she got pregnant, i begged her not to have the abortion, but she wanted to have it saying she was not ready to have the baby.. i told her i will support her decision and pay for it all, and take care of her afterwards.... my mistake i made was accusing that baby of not being mine one night to see if she would admit to cheating on me with her ex... well that backfired, and i admitted what i did, and asked her to forgive me... we got in a argument while i was in atlantic city last week, and i sent her a nasty email saying how she strings her ex along, and she treats me like **** etc... we started to talk and things werwe foing great again.... Fri. we did the abortion... i did everything to take care of her, and she was saying how i am the most amazing guy, the sweetest guy she has ever been with... well that night, i got a call while at her place having dinner, and it was her ex saying she was pregnant with her baby.. we got in a fight... come to find out, my friends were playing pranks on all thier friends that night... she heard all this... they hit a wrong nerve and wrong timing... they didnt know what she just went through that day... well she was mad that they said her ex name. i told her they knew his name because they asked me 2 months ago if there was a ex invlved. i said yes, some dude andrew... she thinks i was talking about her and her ex with my friends which i didnt... she doesnt believe me at all... Anyway, i felt bad for what happened that night and went to walmart and got her a teddy bear and flowers and left them at her doorstep so she got them in the morning. i text her the next morning say good morning, hope you feel better, and if you need anything call me... i get a email saying that with everything that has happened recently that she wants space and to take a break... that i have been really sweet and she appreciates that... that she will talk to me later... well she text me all sat. night, and i responded. then sun. morning as well... nothing the rest of the day... i started to think she was just going to string me along... im not going through that again... anyway, mon. morning she emails me saying hi... i was to busy to answer her. so she emailed me again saying.. hey did you get my email, i was wondering because i havent heard from you? i emailed back and said " hi, yes, its extremely busy at work today, hope yor having a great day, ttyl. she emailed back and said" good for you, hope you have a great day also. ciao! i havent heard from her since, and yes i have put in my head that she wont call or come back like she has before.... no i have not contacted her, or begged for her. im not doing that... im giving her the space she wanted. will she realize all the good i have done, and put the bad aside and miss me, and come back? yes i was needy and did way to much for her in the relationship, which is clear to me now that i was wrong in that aspect..... thoughts please.... why was she contacting me, and wondering why she hasnt heard from me? was she going to string me? should i call her? i just dont want to contact her if she said space and break, but she did make efforts to contact me, but i said i was busy... please tell me how to get this girl to come back, i know we are right for eachother... we have so much in common that it scares us both... we even already talked about marriage already....
Geishawhelk Posted February 4, 2009 Posted February 4, 2009 I'm sorry, This is completely unintelligible. You're just rambling incoherently, and your post is almost impossible to read. You'll have to try again and break your post up into paragraphs, and try using proper sentences instead of scattering multiple full stops everywhere. Sorry, but I still haven't worked out what the heck it is you want. And usually, I'm quite good at this.
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