blondesmiler Posted February 4, 2009 Posted February 4, 2009 And if so now what do I do? So we have severe snow in the UK, haven't been able to get too work this week but tried to get my car out the drive this morning but only got it so far and got stuck. Then will thinking "what am I gonna do, can't go forward, can't go backward" then this lovely guy comes along and offers to help push my car. We try and try it didn't work, he introduces himself with his name and asked mine, told me where he lived and asked where I lived to which I pointed to my house right in front of my car. Say thank you. He goes and says I'm just going to try and get my car out I am down there if you need anymore help. I said thank you ever so much for your help, smiled as I walked off down the road to get some salt. Was he just being polite? Was he flirting? Should I pop a note in his house just saying thank you? Dono what to do but seemed nice enough, be nice to see what he looks like without his beenie hat on.
SoulSearch_CO Posted February 4, 2009 Posted February 4, 2009 Sounds to me like he was just being polite. If he's interested, he'll come after you - he knows where you live.
Lucky_One Posted February 4, 2009 Posted February 4, 2009 If he doesn't know your marital status, then he might not be coming after you. I don't know many guys who would go knocking on a virtual stranger's door to chat without knowing if another bloke is going to answer the knock. There is nothing wrong with writing a VERY short and non-flirty note to thank someone for a kind deed. (If the world wrote more thank you notes, it would be a better place!) If he is married or has a SO living with him, then she will think he is even nicer for helping a stranded woman out. If he is not married or dating, then he has a reminder of your name, and then the ball is in his court. He still may do nothing about it, but at least a small step has been made on your end.
Author blondesmiler Posted February 4, 2009 Author Posted February 4, 2009 If he doesn't know your marital status, then he might not be coming after you. I don't know many guys who would go knocking on a virtual stranger's door to chat without knowing if another bloke is going to answer the knock. There is nothing wrong with writing a VERY short and non-flirty note to thank someone for a kind deed. (If the world wrote more thank you notes, it would be a better place!) If he is married or has a SO living with him, then she will think he is even nicer for helping a stranded woman out. If he is not married or dating, then he has a reminder of your name, and then the ball is in his court. He still may do nothing about it, but at least a small step has been made on your end. Yes true he does not know mine and I do not know his, I will pop a note through tomorrow. Seems a silly question but what would you write it on, post it note, ripped page from a note book, a thank you card?
Lucky_One Posted February 4, 2009 Posted February 4, 2009 You don't own stationery? If not, it's time to purchase some.
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