messiah Posted February 4, 2009 Posted February 4, 2009 Hello, im into this chick from work. She knows im into her because i have told her like a month ago. She said she likes me too but at the moment she just likes things they way they are between us because at that same time she was still seeing her ex bfs. But now she has completely ended things with her ex bfs (who were real douche bags i might add) and she no longer sees them. Im really stoked about it because they really were douche bags. However she seems quite gutted about it all and im sure she wouldnt want to jump straight into another relationship with me. Im all good with taking things slow because i think shes worth it. Should i take this chance to ask her out on a date? or is it too soon? I was thinking of asking her to be my valentine just like in the old days. Would greatly appreciate any thoughts and opinions!
RRyan65 Posted February 4, 2009 Posted February 4, 2009 So, she was this naive idiot who was seeing several douchebags at once and now, overnight, she's wised up and is about to get to know a real 'winner'(you)? Let me tell you, her tastes have not changed. She will be attacted to "douche-bags" for a long time, because they're fun and they're less clingy then you come off to be. These guys probably crossed the line into a-hole territory (a no-no), thats why she finally left them. I'll tell you one thing though, if you aren't at least close to what these 'bags were, its not going to last between you two. But then again, someone here has got way better advice than I about what keeps a fun-loving young lady around /sarc (assuming she's a fun-loving young lady, and not some desperate 40 y/o multiple divorcee who feels her biological clock winding down. If its the latter, don't listen to me). I've made all the mistakes myself. Likewise, I've done what works. This is how I know these things.
Author messiah Posted February 4, 2009 Author Posted February 4, 2009 haha when im into a chick every other guy around her is a douche bag except me. im sure every other guy has the same mentality.
Author messiah Posted February 5, 2009 Author Posted February 5, 2009 do you ppl think its a good idea to persist and persist? because she doesnt really give me an answer she says one thing and says another. Sometimes she very contradictory she kind of just floats around the idea of going on a date with me. so should i persist or not?
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