unluckylad Posted February 4, 2009 Posted February 4, 2009 hey, im not to sure were to start and im just looking for some advice on how to cope or other options. I first met this girl bout 4 months ago and we were complete strangers having a good time in town. after a week or so of meeting we got together. this was basicly my first girlfriend iv had, and i invited her to stay at my house around 4-5 nights a week. this girl is one tuff girl she would never show me any emotions, she would never come to me for a kiss or a hug, or even come onto me unless she was in a realy good mood. she met nearly all my family and spent alot of time wiv them. this girl i found out is nearly 18 but shes been wiv alot of lads b4 around 25 i fink, i cudnt believe this wen she told me, but she told me wen she was drunk n was sayin ill only tell you if you promise not to leave me, wen she told me i was shocked, n ignored her for about 1 hour, then she sed iv changed i used to be like that im not any more. i rolled over aftr finking about it n sed to her ok nuffin u tello me will put me off u. she was texting a lad who would always call her gawjus and i hated it, i asked her if she wud tell him to stop it i dnt mind him txtin u jus not the cheesy stuff. she always has ago at me for txtin anybody and deletes there number. n i got angry wiv her n sed if u dnt txt him im leaveing u, she went ok get me a taxi, also another time she picked to go to a house party over me, reason i didnt want her ther was becus i found out sum lad was there who sed can i shag u on ur 18th bday (next week). n she chose to go to it , but neva went anyway. we got bk together. she went to leave me that mornin i told her to text that lad bk, but i stopped her becus she sed she wud txt him, we went out for the day she told me she neva wants to loose me and got her hair dne and had a good laugh, wen we got home at about 9.30 she jus went i wana go home, n i was like why n she goes its not working. i tried convincing her to stay but neva worked. after this i have been chasing her and she wud get my hopes up a lil bit n drop em agen e.g. she came on msn and sed dnt worry ur gna have the last laugh i was wondering wat she ment and asked her, she sed im probly gna regret leaving u in the future wen ur moved on nd ur happy. i thought by this she was saying she regrettin it now. so iv bin talking to her since avin a laugh and told her how much im in love wiv her n miss her being in my bed wiv me ect. jus tnite we have been on the fone together chattin n i sed do u wana meet me tomoz in town n she was like yeh ok we can go to mine aswell if u like. i was shocked !! so happy after all these games. then after we arranged it she sed i dnt think its a good idea n i asked her why , n she sed becus iv made ma mind up wer not gettin bk together but u can still meet me .. iv been feeling realy sick, unable to sleep n eat crieng all the time, i actually met her wen i started anti depresents for high anxiety and depression i have. she realy helped take my mind of things. it hurts the most that she doesnt care how i feel n i wana treat her right unlike all the other lads shes bin wiv. i realy need sum advice on how to get over her or anything to help me. its so painfull she so heartless sorry its so long but tbh thats not half of it jus a few examples. thanks for reading this
Author unluckylad Posted February 5, 2009 Author Posted February 5, 2009 any one please leave some comments im realy hurt
exclusive. Posted February 5, 2009 Posted February 5, 2009 Listen to what your saying buddy, she was texting a guy who was blatently stepping the boundries of your relationship, shes been with like 25 guys? She doesn't wanna settle down mate and you have been hurt in her selfish way of life. Start No Contact ASAP, spend the time on getting over her and getting on with you and find a nice girl who is interested in love, affection, showing feeling and being devoted to one guy - not many. C'mon man, we have all been there dude and I know how much it hurts - I still cry myself, but if someone trully cares about you - they don't hurt you like this. Chin up son and leave that **** behind.
Author unluckylad Posted February 5, 2009 Author Posted February 5, 2009 thnx alot mate for replien to this, its nice to hear a few words to giv u a lil strength n point out some things u get blind to, dno wat steps to take to move on but i think im gna stop running to her now n jus leave her to get on wiv it no matter how much it hurts, one thing im not liking tho its her 18th this weekend n i hate the fort she will be with all these lads buying her drinks n flirting wiv her :(
exclusive. Posted February 5, 2009 Posted February 5, 2009 Been through the same thoughts buddy, in which case, get together with your friends and go out and do something - but not so you can run into her. Seriously, for your own sake - cut contact and go and live your life. Please, don't make the same mistake as me and keep running back begging - I almost took my own life because she screwed with my head that bad. Trust me, from one guy in pain to another - let her go and DO NOT FOLLOW.
xrhannyx Posted February 5, 2009 Posted February 5, 2009 my mate just broke up with his first gf n it was v v v v v similar to what you just sed has happened!! He came to me absolutley devestated he didnt know what to do but i just sat him down n was like look you need to live your life not just exist,,,,you need to LIVE it! she has broken your heart but your heart will mend wen you find someone that loves how you treat them and wont break up with u If she wants to walk...like the guy above ^^^ let her walk or she will walk all over you and u wont ever get back up ANd to me it sounds like you deserve better!! good luck xx
Knight_Ctrl Posted February 5, 2009 Posted February 5, 2009 Two things bud. 1. Please please PLEASE type a bit clearer, that hurt my mind trying to comprehend what you were trying to say. 2. Run far far away from this bitch and don't look back. She has no respect for you and you deserve to be respected.
Author unluckylad Posted February 7, 2009 Author Posted February 7, 2009 lol sorry mate its hard trien to type wen u head is so confused , i cnt seem to not keep in touch wiv her realy makin me sick now
Facing the Dark Posted February 7, 2009 Posted February 7, 2009 Listen, this bitch is insane. As Knight stated. She is a slut, a worthless human being, and should probably die.
GoneButNotForgotten Posted February 7, 2009 Posted February 7, 2009 That's a bit harsh dark. But in any case chalk this one up to experience. Now you know more of what you want in a woman. Watch for the signs in new women you meet. This can be a valuable lesson as long as you learn it. Some women aren't worth giving the time of day. She is one of those. Get back out to living life. Make yourself happy first and the other aspects of life tend to start falling into place. And reading your posts hurts. Is English your second language? You seem to type based off phonetics. Something the english language sucks to spell with.
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