Should I Talk To Him?-I screwed up..

[tayyloorrr]

okayy.. hi, my name is taylor.and at this point, im pretty desperate for advice..I NEED YOUR HELP/ADVICE!!

 

Here's what happened:

 

I had this boyfriend named Drew and we serisouly thought that we were in love. We started going out and I got really freaked out because he said he wanted to have my babies? and marry me... i thought it was cute at first but then it just got kind of creepy..i started talking to my friend about it and they convinced me to break up with him. So i did.. bad mistake.

 

- now that i realize that that was the most stupid mistake i could have ever made. I miss him sooo much and i wish i could have him back. After i broke up with him he wanted me back and i said no because i thought i would get over him.. but i didnt, and i havent. I played with his heart and i regret it everyday. He's all i ever think about..

 

- i started talking to him again and he said he still cared for me but (i have a myspace) i got on my myspace and saw that his name was changed.. to Lindsay.. i looked on his top and he has a GIRLFRIEND!! Ugh! my heart lyterally stopped. EVERYTHING he said to me was a lie! but i gave in and still kept texting him. he doesnt seem completely in to me anymore :/ and i know its all my fault. im sorry this is soooo long but i need your help. Should i keep texting him? What should i do to get him back? Tell me all you want.. i just need some advice and im happy to hear anything :].

 

THANKSSS!

-Tayyloorrr

[MSUE]

You are so cute...it's not that he lied to you its that he moved on...Maybe he tought he loved you then sounds to me more like he wanted to sleep with you...when he said he wanted babies or maybe he was just being a dreamer like a lot of boys are at that age..

 

However you broke up with him cause your friends were freaked out...if you really feel that you love or loved this boy and he's a good kid listen to your heart and your gut instinct.

 

but what's done is done and now he's got a new girl so just learn from this experience and find yourself a new BF

[You'reasian]

okayy.. hi, my name is taylor.and at this point, im pretty desperate for advice..I NEED YOUR HELP/ADVICE!!

 

Here's what happened:

 

I had this boyfriend named Drew and we serisouly thought that we were in love. We started going out and I got really freaked out because he said he wanted to have my babies? and marry me... i thought it was cute at first but then it just got kind of creepy..i started talking to my friend about it and they convinced me to break up with him. So i did.. bad mistake.

 

- now that i realize that that was the most stupid mistake i could have ever made. I miss him sooo much and i wish i could have him back. After i broke up with him he wanted me back and i said no because i thought i would get over him.. but i didnt, and i havent. I played with his heart and i regret it everyday. He's all i ever think about..

 

- i started talking to him again and he said he still cared for me but (i have a myspace) i got on my myspace and saw that his name was changed.. to Lindsay.. i looked on his top and he has a GIRLFRIEND!! Ugh! my heart lyterally stopped. EVERYTHING he said to me was a lie! but i gave in and still kept texting him. he doesnt seem completely in to me anymore :/ and i know its all my fault. im sorry this is soooo long but i need your help. Should i keep texting him? What should i do to get him back? Tell me all you want.. i just need some advice and im happy to hear anything :].

 

THANKSSS!

-Tayyloorrr

 

I think your best bet is to go NC and move on, right?

 

Reading what you wrote, it looks like you really miss him - but he has a new girl so it seems.

[Weird]

One of two choices:

 

-either text him one more time and be totally honest/open with your feelings and all that jazz and I mean TOTALLY OPEN and be ready to accept what he says, good or bad.

 

-do not text him again and move on and chalk this up to a life lesson.

 

What you don't want to do is keep texting but not being direct since it will just make things worse for both of you.

 

Oh and next time don't listen to your friends since (no offense) they sound pretty immature and most friends give piss poor advice anyway since they really do not care what truly happens.

 

One more thing...a guy saying he wants to father your children and marry you shouldn't be by itself creepy unless you just met the person or the guy is 40 and the girl is 16.

[tayyloorrr]

Thanks for the advice :] I used it and its working great to far.

-Im actually suprised someone replied..haha.

 

Thanks againn,

Taylor