remid Posted February 4, 2009 Posted February 4, 2009 About a month ago, I met a girl through online dating. After the second date, she told me that she didn't feel the connection but that she would like to be friends (which really sounds like the polite way to say that she wasn't interested). Anyway since I was interested, I kept contact with her since then. Last week, she told me that she knew the perfect girl for me. Well, I have nothing to lose so I told her to give me her friend's number. Right after sending me the number, she said that she was feeling jealous, that she didn't realize it before giving me her friend's number. But after that, she also said that I should meet with her friend... I'm kinda confused now... what does she feel? What does she really expect me to do? Sometimes girls seem so complicated... why not saying things directly? I tried to call her but she's always too "busy" to answer. But not to text... I don't know what I should do... I guess, I just need advice.
D-Lish Posted February 4, 2009 Posted February 4, 2009 I'd say, just stay away from both of them! The girl isn't complicated- she's whacky. Why offer up the number and then claim jealousy after saying she wasn't interested...only to turn around and encourage you to call her friend anyway. If you do want to remain friends with her- just leave the friend thing out of it. She does sound whacky though.
Illiandra Posted February 4, 2009 Posted February 4, 2009 plain and simple, if i totally liked a guy and was interested in HIM i would NOT be giving him my gf's number, what the hell is this,,,, sounds like some high school drama to me !! id honestly just play it cool for now and NOT meet her friend (make up an excuse telll her your busy at work or busy OUT with friends) see how she reacts to it,,, honestly you dont need DRAMA!
Author remid Posted February 9, 2009 Author Posted February 9, 2009 I don't know what to do with this girl... I suggested to see each other this weekend (actually after I had seen her friend). She accepted and seemed happy. But when I finnally called her she said she was with her mum and had no time to meet... I got the feeling that nothing is never gonna come from there and that I should just forget about her
SoulSearch_CO Posted February 9, 2009 Posted February 9, 2009 I'm kind of getting the feeling with this girl that she's attracted to the IDEA of a relationship - just not with you. She liked you enough as a friend to introduce you to someone else, but then realized that her friend could get into a relationship before her and that bothered her. So I'd say she wasn't jealous of her friend getting with YOU...she was jealous of her friend getting a R before her. Yeah - wacky - like D said. Forget this girl.
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