OCCDAVE Posted February 3, 2009 Posted February 3, 2009 I have been trying for weeks to get my stuff from my ex but she's been busy.this week came the kids are sick no biggie I guess .I text her just now saying when's a good time next week she said I dunno the kids have the flu and so do I plus I got plans friday and saturday.I then got a text saying her friend is gonna drop her off with the stuff I said sounds good thanks.I got this final text dunno if I should reply Sure np giving ur stuff is no big deal anyway hope all is well with u hope ur happy What do I do now I feel I gave her all the power
Ronni_W Posted February 3, 2009 Posted February 3, 2009 I actually think that if you DO NOT RESPOND, then you will be in power. But. If that won't work (doesn't feel "right" for whatever reason), can your brain come up with any ideas you could think, do or say (not necessarily to her) that will definitely help you feel back in power? To me, that last text from her just sounds childish and like she is baiting you (to react on her same, immature level.) DON'T DO IT...STAY STRONG!!!
D-Lish Posted February 3, 2009 Posted February 3, 2009 So she left it that her friend is dropping off your things to you? Not sure if I read that right or not. I don't see how you lost any power. You need your stuff back and are entitled to it. I guess you have to arrange a date- so if you do text back just address the when and where issue, say nothing about doing fine or anything like that. Just keep it all business. If a time has already been arranged- don't respond to her text.
Tryng2Trust08 Posted February 3, 2009 Posted February 3, 2009 What is she holding onto your stuff for anyway? And why is she saying I hope you're happy! Wtf? And no you did not give her any power...I hope u get your stuff soon, and the games stop....thats whats shes doing.
Author OCCDAVE Posted February 3, 2009 Author Posted February 3, 2009 What got me mad is I have the flu yet u got plans for friday and saturday must not be that big of a so called flu.finally that last text might have been cause the kids are sick I said hope they are feeling good no matter what now I feel like crap cause u know she said it out of pity
westrock Posted February 3, 2009 Posted February 3, 2009 Try to remember that if you let her win, that does not mean you have to lose.
msjules Posted February 4, 2009 Posted February 4, 2009 This isn't about winning or losing. It's about getting your stuff back, which it sounds like is going to happen eventually. No matter how this turns out, YOU win in the long run because you found out just what a petty beyotch this woman is before you wasted much more time on her. I know it hurts, but you are learning lessons for the next time and you are growing.
Author OCCDAVE Posted February 4, 2009 Author Posted February 4, 2009 Well now she said I can come over tomorrow or she will drop it off at night talk about change of heart.sigh I hope tomorrow im strong I need to be its just ruff she sounded cold in the text meh.
JohnnyBlaze Posted February 4, 2009 Posted February 4, 2009 Recommendation? You go over and pick your stuff up. That way, you can verify that everything that is yours is there. Also, you'll be able to leave whenever you want; you won't be at her mercy, should she decide to have a talk.
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