Bluesters Posted February 3, 2009 Posted February 3, 2009 The following is text converstaion. Her: 7:42 Hey Hun, I just got home, I'm talking to family. I am so not feeling well. I would love to see you but really sick. Can we chat later??? Her: 7:43 How about tomorrow or Sunday, Can we hang? Me: 7:45 Sure, I knew you wouldn't be feeling well after the long day you had. If you can't answer, dont worry about it. Her: 7:47 Cant answer?? What do you mean? Call u soon Hun, would love to chat xxxooo Me: 7:52 I meant if your to sick to chat, dont answer, go lay down, u dont have to answer me. Talk soon Her: 7:58 I just wanted to hear your voice. Try calling us soon What are u up to? I spotted something in this, can anyone else?
moman Posted February 3, 2009 Posted February 3, 2009 Try calling 'US' soon? Seems like standard text conversation to me except I didn't understand your part about 'don't answer'.
RRyan65 Posted February 3, 2009 Posted February 3, 2009 Spooky. Her initial sentence, although not POSITIVELY a lie, is used a lot to hide what they are really doing. "I'm not feeling so well", give me a break. There is definitely something there to that end part.
Geishawhelk Posted February 3, 2009 Posted February 3, 2009 Er...... no. But then again, it's not a whole lot of info, is it? Or should it be enough.....?
SoulSearch_CO Posted February 3, 2009 Posted February 3, 2009 I think at the end she just meant to say that she would try calling "u" soon and accidentally hit the "s" button. But that aside, she tried to blow you off at first, then when you didn't beg to talk to her, all of a sudden she wants to chat. LOL
runner Posted February 3, 2009 Posted February 3, 2009 this is why i don't do too much chat via sms; too much just gets lost in between. e.g., when she asked for clarity; that's happened many times with me. whatever it is you spotted might be a bit off so don't run too far with it. at least i wouldn't.
JoeNat Posted February 3, 2009 Posted February 3, 2009 There is nothing wrong with this... she was to sick to see you but clearly stated she wanted to chat later. Then you were being thoughtful and said dont worry about it. I understand your sick just get your rest. This upset her a little because she just wanted to hear your voice (she said chat later??). She felt like you might of been blowing her off and because she was sick was probably a little more senstive. Sheesh... I should charge for this stuff...
Ramrod Posted February 3, 2009 Posted February 3, 2009 I see paranoia. I see you dissecting every word/letter she texted you. I see you don't trust her. I see this relationship ending because of your insecurities. Did I miss anything else?
Concerned1201 Posted February 3, 2009 Posted February 3, 2009 It's much too hard to give you any reply to this situation without knowing more about your elationship ? Please give more info about this relationship before you can get ANY real responses to this situation.....
jasminetea Posted February 3, 2009 Posted February 3, 2009 I see paranoia. I see you dissecting every word/letter she texted you. I see you don't trust her. I see this relationship ending because of your insecurities. Did I miss anything else? *giggle* Oh, and ditto
Enema Posted February 3, 2009 Posted February 3, 2009 6 minutes between your last message and her reply. That's enough time to have sex three times. Trouble.
Alma Mobley Posted February 3, 2009 Posted February 3, 2009 I do see something... a lot of paranoia and overanalysis.
carhill Posted February 3, 2009 Posted February 3, 2009 I see this relationship ending because of your insecurities. Yeah, considering the last girl dumped him only a few days ago, likely a whole witches brew of stuff going on. OP, if she was really sick, a soothing voice goes a bit further than text on a computer screen. When she said "talking to family" I'll assume talking was text IM chatting. When you had that phone conversation later, how did that go? How long have you been dating her?
Author Bluesters Posted February 4, 2009 Author Posted February 4, 2009 Her last text stated: I just wanted to hear your voice. I dont think that text was intended for me but someone else, she states she's sick and would like to chat later, okay, that means she will call or text later, yet only 6 minutes go by and she's asking "What are you up to? Maybe I am just paranoid, but your right, I dont trust her. There have been other times she has lied, so I just cant trust her. Time to move on
Ramrod Posted February 4, 2009 Posted February 4, 2009 No offense. I'm no expert on women, but I am guessing I'm twice your age (I'm 45) so, while I maybe don't know all that much about women and maybe just a thimble full of info more than you, I know this much for sure, their flakier than pie crust and nuttier than squirrel t*rds, did you ever try to call a cat and have them sit on your lap? You know what happens they stroll right by you and do their own thing. Five minutes later their sitting in your lap letting you pet them and purring away. Women are ruled by their hormones every bit as much as us, some actually enjoy making us crazy, some don't have to try harder than others, some are there and waiting for us to catch up. What I'm saying is you have to let some stuff go, be cool, be confident and, if she's making you crazy return the favor, tip the scales, put the balance in your favor, be a man take control of that woman and don't LET her do it to you.
Bri754 Posted February 4, 2009 Posted February 4, 2009 OK. I hope your sitting down, because I am about to rock your world when I unveil this conspiracy right before your eyes. Please be seated. The following is text converstaion. Her: 7:42 Hey Hun, I just got home, I'm talking to family. I am so not feeling well. I would love to see you but really sick. Can we chat later??? Her: 7:43 How about tomorrow or Sunday, Can we hang? Me: 7:45 Sure, I knew you wouldn't be feeling well after the long day you had. If you can't answer, dont worry about it. Her: 7:47 Cant answer?? What do you mean? Call u soon Hun, would love to chat xxxooo Me: 7:52 I meant if your to sick to chat, dont answer, go lay down, u dont have to answer me. Talk soon Her: 7:58 I just wanted to hear your voice. Try calling us soon What are u up to? I spotted something in this, can anyone else? I found this after careful analysis. If your write down the bold letters, the message is clear. I'm so sorry.
SoulSearch_CO Posted February 4, 2009 Posted February 4, 2009 OK. I hope your sitting down, because I am about to rock your world when I unveil this conspiracy right before your eyes. Please be seated. I found this after careful analysis. If your write down the bold letters, the message is clear. I'm so sorry. Wow. It's like the bible code, or some ****. You're a genius.
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