CandyGirlXO Posted February 3, 2009 Posted February 3, 2009 Need some help guys. This is my first NEW relationship during Valentine's Day. I have only been with him for about one month, so I am not sure what to do. I know its for the ladies usually, but I have always done something for for BF's in the past also. Since this R is so new I am just not sure what to do. I am not too sure what he has planned and I don't want him to feel bad if he doesn't do anything for me. I am sure he will do the usual of flowers and dinner.... thats a given. But for him, he is a big sports fan, so my plan was to get him 2 tickets to a sports event. I would love to get more so that his friends could go, but they are kind of expensive. I was going to put the tickets in a card. #1 Is this too much? #2 Should I write in the card that he could take one of his buddies? (he would probably have a better time) #3 We are too new and don't say I love you, etc... what the hell should I write in the card? Advice please... Like I said in the past I have usually been with guys for at least 6 months before V-day so it was easy to come up with something. I am struggling over here.
libelula00 Posted February 3, 2009 Posted February 3, 2009 the way i see it you first you need to analyze the situation and ask yourself has he earned the tickets? is he worth the money? do you see the relationship going further than 2 months? these are just some example of question you can ask yourself in order to make a healthy decision.... after you have answered these question (and hopefully you have answered yes to all of them), then i think the tickets are a great idea... it shows him you care about him and his interests... also i understand your "he'll have more fun with his friends" idea... but also keep in mind that he might want you to share this experience with him as well so don't close that door for you so soon. as to what to write in the card... well that's up to you sweetie, i mean your the only one that knows in what stage your relationship is... and keep in mind its a card NOT A LETTER so you can just write something brief and simple, think of it as a little 'romantic' note, if you will. i hope this is helpful! take care and good luck!
AlektraClementine Posted February 3, 2009 Posted February 3, 2009 I'd give it some more time before buying him the tickets. Maybe for his birthday? Here's a harmless idea. Find out what his favorite desert is and make it for him for Vday. include a small card that says "Happy Valentines Day".
Meaplus3 Posted February 3, 2009 Posted February 3, 2009 I'm sort of in the same boat candygirl. I'm thinking what I will do is give him a real nice card. I don't want to do to much more since the relationship is so new. If I were you, I'd hold of on the tickets. A nice card from the heart would be very appropriate. Good luck with your new guy. Mea:)
Author CandyGirlXO Posted February 3, 2009 Author Posted February 3, 2009 Really you guys honestly think its too soon for tickets? I guess I should maybe give some more background. I have known him for almost 3 years, and we have gone to events before. He has paid everytime as well as paid for about 95% of dinners that we have already done. So even with that being said, you think it is still too early to do the tickets? Appreciate the advice!
Meaplus3 Posted February 3, 2009 Posted February 3, 2009 Really you guys honestly think its too soon for tickets? I guess I should maybe give some more background. I have known him for almost 3 years, and we have gone to events before. He has paid everytime as well as paid for about 95% of dinners that we have already done. So even with that being said, you think it is still too early to do the tickets? Appreciate the advice! Well..If you have known him for 3 years then yes I'd think tickets are a fine idea. I was thinking this R was very new. So, yes go for it with the tickets. I bet he will appreciate them very much. Good luck. Mea:)
LSwaha111 Posted February 3, 2009 Posted February 3, 2009 I found an article online that I think you should check out: http://www.swidgen.com/home-and-family/love-and-romance/valentines-day-gift-ideas-for-guys/ Hope it helps you out some!
Author CandyGirlXO Posted February 4, 2009 Author Posted February 4, 2009 I found an article online that I think you should check out: http://www.swidgen.com/home-and-family/love-and-romance/valentines-day-gift-ideas-for-guys/ Hope it helps you out some! Thanks, that does help. I will go ahead and get the tickets. I just had to search for a long time to find a Valentine's Day card that wasn't too lovey dovey considering we are a new couple and we haven't gotten to the stage where we say I love you. Geeez Valentine's Day for a new couple is stressful. Too much pressure. I am glad I am not a guy.
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