damn Posted February 2, 2009 Posted February 2, 2009 When I first met my dude 4 years ago he was married and swore like he was in the perfect marriage...hewas my manager at the time...I didnt really like much he jus grew on me we spent so much time together....one thing led to anova and then bam...we had a afair a year later...as time went stupid things started happening and things started revealing. Turns out A friend of his which he claims is not such a friend anymore. told me he was sleeping with his wife. I never seen this guy b4 he jus mysteriously got my number from somewhere. I thought dude was playing a joke on me with the phone calls from the begining. Cuz his friend wud ask me questions like where did i live what i looked like...told me i shudnt be involved with him that i didnt know what i was getting myself into...all types of mess... i had to move back home for minute we were separated and he was talking divorce.... think he was scared to tell me cause I told him as long as he stayed with her i would stay with him... I jus didnt want want drama at that time I said that statement..I had a expensive apartment car note and we worked together...it jus seemed eaiser to keep himthen to let him go...and above all i love him you know...its jus we had more of a physical relationship at that time, and i didnt want to catch feelings... but it was too late we had already got caughtup....so me and my guy decided to take it to another level..then i heard he got diagnoised with prostate cancer over a year ago...and he's had surgery done. I ased him about it and he refused to tell me anything except that it wasnt true. Now all of a sudden he strayin away from me. I tried to let him know that it didnt mean nuthing that i still loved him. He constantly arguing about something.he 's always flippin things where it seems like i'm the one wrong. I got tired and stop really talking to him I try to reconcile...We dont talk on the phone unless he's at work and even then he's yelling.. he says he needs more then a phone relationship. i'm busy too he wants me to come up to his job, he works a a fitness gym and i have a membership i can go to any gym i please i jus dont come to his. Its a lil incovient. But he doesnt care. I asked if he wants to go out spend some time together...he says no. Then he'll tell me to du me...then when i du he gets upset. He thought i was trying to talk to this guy at his job and started drama between us and it wasnt nothing at all. I asked him to write me a letter of recomemdaion for my job cuz i needed one, he refused, and said he wasnt qualifed.(he usta be my mgr)????? Like I don't know what to du. He never mentions any other women...all he says he does is work and go home now that hes a changed man and does du things the way he use2. ... That I have to prove to him... PROVE WHAT? He said that the relationship that we had is done and all he's worried bout is this day forward...and That I need to be paient what does it sound like.... I think he's afraid that ima du him wrong....I don't know help me pleaseeeeeee:eek:
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