edgeof27 Posted February 2, 2009 Posted February 2, 2009 Okay, married 28 years next May, Kids both went to college 5 years ago, Wife "went" with them 4 years ago, Daughter developed depression, (2nd bout, wife says she is there on suicide watch), so after 4 years of living apart, (being played & gaslighted), is there any chance that she actually still loves me, or are we done, &, am I wasting my time waiting for "things to improve", not much to go on, but what is your opinion, g....
imagine Posted February 2, 2009 Posted February 2, 2009 How often do you get home calls? What is making daughter depressed? How often have you been there to visit? What gaslighting are you referring to?
Author edgeof27 Posted February 3, 2009 Author Posted February 3, 2009 q1) How often do you get home calls? a1) seldom, (but mostly only when $$$$ is required), about once every three weeks..... q2) What is making daughter depressed? a2) don't know, (I am excluded from any updates or information), maybe "Munchausen".... q3) How often have you been there to visit? a3) seldom, (mostly only to deliver $$$$ when required), never invited otherwise recently, q4) What gaslighting are you referring to? a4) she only ever contacts me when she needs something, usually $$$$, & then she is somewhat "pleasant", (like talking to a distant sibling). g....
Mr. Lucky Posted February 3, 2009 Posted February 3, 2009 Kids both went to college 5 years ago, Wife "went" with them 4 years ago OK, I'm confused. Both your kids went away to the same college? And your wife moved there to be with them? How far away is this from you? Daughter developed depression, (2nd bout, wife says she is there on suicide watch) If your daughter is struggling to that extent, why is she still away at school? Sorry for all the questions but there seems to be lots missing here... Mr. Lucky
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