lambda Posted February 2, 2009 Posted February 2, 2009 We have all met them; flirty girls that are able to make us feel so special with their magic charm. And we really believe that we are special, because the flirty girl singles you out. But it only lasts for a brief time, because these girls flirt with almost everyone. And mostly it doesn't mean anything. But what kind of guy do these kind of girls end up with eventually? Is it a flirty boy that can beat them in their own game? Or is it the complete opposite, a guy that can keep them grounded? And how do these girls act towards a guy that they are actually interested in?? Share your experiences please!
JooLee Posted February 2, 2009 Posted February 2, 2009 my opinion, guys who are more grounded. they'll eventually cave in and settle down and dont mind listening to a guy's suggestions. he wouldnt really need to suggest anything cos it will come naturally to them. and most times when it comes to a guy they are actually interested in, they'll be just like any other girl, shy and dumb, biting their tongue in hopes they wont say anything stupid. we are all human after all
fishtaco Posted February 2, 2009 Posted February 2, 2009 Who cares? Flirty girls are great because they are entertaining, plus you can practice your flirting skills with them. They're just having fun, so that what you should be doing too. But if you're ready to settle down, find someone that's ready to settle down. And all the skills and experienced you gained from messing with the flirty girls will help you land that "serious" one. I don't believe in making people do things that don't want to do, i.e. make a flirty girl settle down, or make someone that wants a serious relationship to play casually. Even if you can force it, most likely it won't turn out well. So I say who cares, it's their own business. They know what they want.
Isolde Posted February 2, 2009 Posted February 2, 2009 Just make sure you realize the difference between girls that are trying to find the right person to date, and girls that are purposely leading you on. Flirting is a first step and nothing more. When a guy flirts with me I generally take it as a sign that he is somewhat interested, but depending on what other girls are available to him or how I react he could go further with it or not.
BCCA Posted February 2, 2009 Posted February 2, 2009 Generally, if a girl is overly flirty, I take it as a sign that they just want attention and nothing more. That philosiphy has yet to fail me, because usually when you kind of feel them out or test them, they show their true colors and you have your answer. When a woman is truly interested, I think they show interest, but play coy a bit at the same time. They dont want to put all their cards on the table. And the entire conversation flows entirely differently.
BlueEyedGirl Posted February 3, 2009 Posted February 3, 2009 I'm generally flirty with guys I'm not interested in. Say on Sat night I was hanging out with couple of guys that I consider friends. I talked about 3-somes and oral sex and kind of put my head on one guys shoulder because I was tired. I also touch them a lot, play with their hair etc. In reality, when I like a guy I am a lot more reserved. I never mention sex and wouldn't dream of being forward enough to put my head on his shoulder. What I do when I am genuinly interested is go all shy, twirl my hair, blush, make lots of eye contact and perhaps laugh a bit too hard when he cracks a joke.
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