indiebaby Posted February 2, 2009 Posted February 2, 2009 So i usally keep daily/ everyother day contact with this person. After the last time we had sex i was ignored for 4 days, untill he talked to me shortly to say " oh, well i didnt kiss you because i had a cold coming". Then, back to ignoring me. So it was the straw that broke that camels back. Not to mention him lying strait to my face.... So, i told him last friday i liked him more then i should, having feelings for someone who was just a friend to me wasnt a good idea. And, im not sure if this is bad/good/ but assured him he was the only man i was into and i saw no one else, but didnt see why staying friends was a problem. It was only a friends with benefits situation and for a while now ive been sensing he's attached himself to someone else just with the distance/less contact. Sooo.... i still havnt heard anything from him. I guess, im wondering....how to handle it all. A friend to me for 6 years, FWB for about 4 when both single....and im to the point of almost thinking most men seem to be the same. Friendships mean nothing once he gets in your pants.
melodymatters Posted February 2, 2009 Posted February 2, 2009 Well, live and learn from this : Guys who care about you want you to be their girlfriend, guys who kinda like you, but like getting laid more will use you and then call it FWB. That term is the greatest con of all time !! It should be lengenthed to " I don't really give a sh*t about you, but i'm willing to f*ck you until someone i REALLY like comes along" ! Forget this guy for the time being, and next time RUN if anyone suggests FWB:sick:
stillafool Posted February 2, 2009 Posted February 2, 2009 Well, live and learn from this : Guys who care about you want you to be their girlfriend, guys who kinda like you, but like getting laid more will use you and then call it FWB. That term is the greatest con of all time !! It should be lengenthed to " I don't really give a sh*t about you, but i'm willing to f*ck you until someone i REALLY like comes along" ! Forget this guy for the time being, and next time RUN if anyone suggests FWB:sick: Exactly! What did you expect from the FWB? He owes you nothing more than you got. That's why it is a bad idea to agree to such an arrangement unless you are sure it's what you want. A lot of people, especially women go into a FWB relationship hoping it will develop into more. Ususally it doesn't.
Author indiebaby Posted February 2, 2009 Author Posted February 2, 2009 Exactly! What did you expect from the FWB? He owes you nothing more than you got. That's why it is a bad idea to agree to such an arrangement unless you are sure it's what you want. A lot of people, especially women go into a FWB relationship hoping it will develop into more. Ususally it doesn't. actully, all i expected was to be friends. i knew it wasnt my place my expect, or want more( as in realtionship). so, i told him i couldnt keep having sex with him. i suppose after 6 years you think it would be possible to keep in touch, talk to one another, BE FRIENDS. that was all i was after, but like i said, not even that is apparently possible..... i know all about a "FWB" situation. i came here more for advice on how to handle it all. good thing Rekiki threapy is more affective then a forum.
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