Lucky555 Posted February 2, 2009 Posted February 2, 2009 New guy that was pursuing me, I wrote him back a message that he sent me. We have been doing this back and forth. Just about everyday we WERE in contact. However, I asked him some questions and I didn't not hear from him for three days. so i figured he lost interest. BUT He texted me last night saying that he hopes i had a good night. OK...? What is this guy doing?
dreamergrl Posted February 2, 2009 Posted February 2, 2009 Waiting for you to ask him out? Keeping you around in case the other girl he's perusing doesn't go out with him?
BCCA Posted February 2, 2009 Posted February 2, 2009 Well, he still never answered your questions, right? If you dont mind, generally, what were they? I get really skeptical of people that you ask questions to, and they reply without any acknowledgment of what you asked. I had a girl I was interested in, whom I sent an email to asking what she was doing this weekend, and if she was up for lunch. She responded, several hours later than normal, with something completely unrelated, and it was pretty obvious that she was just avoiding the question all together. I stopped contacting her after that, and never heard from her again. It would help me out a lot to know what you asked him. Not answering 'do you like Rocky Road ice cream?' is not the same as not answering 'do you have a gf/do you want to hang out this weekend/etc'.
Author Lucky555 Posted February 3, 2009 Author Posted February 3, 2009 Waiting for you to ask him out? Keeping you around in case the other girl he's perusing doesn't go out with him? yes this could be it. Its the only thing i can see here.
Author Lucky555 Posted February 3, 2009 Author Posted February 3, 2009 Well, he still never answered your questions, right? If you dont mind, generally, what were they? I get really skeptical of people that you ask questions to, and they reply without any acknowledgment of what you asked. I had a girl I was interested in, whom I sent an email to asking what she was doing this weekend, and if she was up for lunch. She responded, several hours later than normal, with something completely unrelated, and it was pretty obvious that she was just avoiding the question all together. I stopped contacting her after that, and never heard from her again. It would help me out a lot to know what you asked him. Not answering 'do you like Rocky Road ice cream?' is not the same as not answering 'do you have a gf/do you want to hang out this weekend/etc'. He told me he had a camp on a lake that he goes to, not his though. I simply asked him if he caught fish from there, because this is one of his interests. I also asked him about surfing but as i have posted before he "lied" maybe to impress me..im over that but that was it. Usually he responds and such after messages. I'm thinking he is trying to string me along till he meets someone or something. This is not typical dating behavior or behavior of a guy who wants to pursue something more. I have heard that he was a bit of a "player" so I am fully aware that this could be him..all i can say is I did give it a chance and he kinda blew me off so to speak..then thinks to send me a text? who does that (a player would) I'm not broken hearted or anything, i have never met the guy, glad i came here for advise
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