BoredPerson Posted February 2, 2009 Posted February 2, 2009 I am 25 years old and I have never had a serious girlfriend in my life ! It has gotten to the stage that I am actually lonely compared to wanting to experiment with sex. What I really want is a little cutie several years younger than myself to be sort of like a teddy bear kind of girlfriend. I don't like women my own age because they're all completely nuts. How do you go about picking up young chicks ? I make about $48,000 a year so I am ideally looking for a student or someone without a high earning potential who would see me as some sort of useful figure. otherwise I don't see why a 18-20 year old would be interested. I'm hoping we can keep each other warm so to speak. Not in a sexual way I'm aiming for hopefully someone a little nerdy who still puts out. I had a couple of dates with one but she was far to socially retarded for it to ever work out. I mean I'm dense right, but this chick was off the meter with her level of Asperger's syndrome. Chicks my age apparently looking for some rich dude to build them a nest or something. Which would be a great way of suckering them in by appearing stable. I'll be well off one day there is no doubt in my mind at all but not within the next few years. My life is epic failure. They'll see me as the door servant or the man who prepares the rubbish bins in the morning. All the NORMAL girls seem to be taken already or they're hiding away somewhere far away from me. Point in question. Any advice on how I can impress a young girl with my manliness ? I think it is my best bet. Shy socially inept 18-20 year old without much money who will be impressed by my sub standard salary. Plus most girls my age are way too smart and sophisticated for me anyway.
torranceshipman Posted February 2, 2009 Posted February 2, 2009 There is so much wrong with this post, I don't know where to start! Dude, I think you have some issues that you need to sort out before you start dating. You talk about girls like they're objects, you clearly have zero self esteem and you have a really strange outlook on everything. Do you have depression/are you currently being treated for anything? Edited to add: I didn't mean that to sound harsh-I am sure there are really good things about you, but right now you don't seem to have the confidence, etc to see them....sounds like you're in a bit of a bad place right now, so that might be affecting your dating potential/approach...
Author BoredPerson Posted February 2, 2009 Author Posted February 2, 2009 What is wrong with that ? I want a puppy like girl to be my girlfriend ? It is good what is wrong with what I want ? I', just asking how to find young nerdy girls? We could watch movies and get dinner and stuff. It would be awesome.
torranceshipman Posted February 2, 2009 Posted February 2, 2009 Ok-well, given your last post about puppy dogs-if you're not a troll, then you have serious problems that I cant help you with so I wont even try
carhill Posted February 2, 2009 Posted February 2, 2009 What part of Australia do you live in? Other than Sydney, mostly in the CBD, I found Australian women to be very friendly. Get out in the country a bit more and maybe you'll find what you seek. Do something whack like the Gympie Muster (if you're up around Brissie) and I'll bet you'll meet some fun girls. The key is getting the focus off yourself (I read your recent job thread) and on the world around you. Women pick up on those things. Most want a man with quiet confidence about who he is.
Green Posted February 2, 2009 Posted February 2, 2009 I actualy enjoyed this post. Seriously the trick to getting an 18-20 minimialy asbergered gf who you can have your fun with will be actually looking for one. Post up interentet adds, randomly msg girls in your area on facebook and myspace. Now even more important then all that stuff go to a college and pretend you were a guest lecturer or something and walk around hitting on them haha
Author BoredPerson Posted February 3, 2009 Author Posted February 3, 2009 What part of Australia do you live in? Other than Sydney, mostly in the CBD, I found Australian women to be very friendly. Get out in the country a bit more and maybe you'll find what you seek. Do something whack like the Gympie Muster (if you're up around Brissie) and I'll bet you'll meet some fun girls. The key is getting the focus off yourself (I read your recent job thread) and on the world around you. Women pick up on those things. Most want a man with quiet confidence about who he is. They're still girls where ever you go. Australian girls are nice but that doesn't mean they will date you it just means they will tease you a little bit more. They're actually pretty hard to pick up. They have a lot of self respect and are not strapped for cash like half of the girls in the US so they don't end up in the sex industry half the time. Like in the USA where girls are virtually whores or stripper under a different name that wear clothing. Flashing a bit of cash won't get you girls but they still expect you to have it anyway. Australian girls have a checklist a mile long it can be damned near impossible to make one happy. Reject nice guy, sleep with bastard, complain that all men suck they do that in Australia too.
lino Posted February 5, 2009 Posted February 5, 2009 Other than Sydney, mostly in the CBD, I found Australian women to be very friendly. Too true! Sydney women are the worst, I'm so glad I don't live there anymore!! They're still girls where ever you go. Australian girls are nice but that doesn't mean they will date you it just means they will tease you a little bit more... ...Flashing a bit of cash won't get you girls but they still expect you to have it anyway. Australian girls have a checklist a mile long it can be damned near impossible to make one happy. Also too true I don't know where the mentality of the 'easy-going' Aussie girl comes from, I think maybe it's something which could have been true many years ago but definitely not now. Sure, it's easy to get roots from Aussie girls but forming relationships with em is a different story! I've travelled quite a lot and from what I saw the Japanese, Spanish and British women are the most friendly
carhill Posted February 5, 2009 Posted February 5, 2009 If you want "feral", head out west. From the time we landed there (in Perth), I could tell
Surfer Dude Posted February 5, 2009 Posted February 5, 2009 They're still girls where ever you go. Australian girls are nice but that doesn't mean they will date you it just means they will tease you a little bit more. They're actually pretty hard to pick up. They have a lot of self respect and are not strapped for cash like half of the girls in the US so they don't end up in the sex industry half the time. Like in the USA where girls are virtually whores or stripper under a different name that wear clothing. Flashing a bit of cash won't get you girls but they still expect you to have it anyway. Australian girls have a checklist a mile long it can be damned near impossible to make one happy. Your post is full of sexual frustration. If you bothered to improve yourself instead of blaming women for your failures, your life would be much better. Reject nice guy, sleep with bastard, complain that all men suck they do that in Australia too."Women seem wicked, when you're unwanted". In reality, "nice guys" are ANYTHING but nice. They are shallow, resentful, clingy, needy, obsessive, paranoid, possessive, jealous, spiteful, passive aggressive, cynical, dishonest, anxious, supplicating, objectifying... the list goes on. Women ARE NOT attracted to "nice guys". If a man does act like a confident and assertive man and lacks the aforementioned traits, "nice guys" will brand him a jerk and a bastard. Don't blame others for your shortcomings. It's one of the primary traits of so called "nice guys".
lino Posted February 6, 2009 Posted February 6, 2009 If you want "feral", head out west. From the time we landed there (in Perth), I could tell No thanks... not into ferals
blondesmiler Posted February 6, 2009 Posted February 6, 2009 Girls and Ladies don't really like being called chicks, so stopping using that term might be a good place to start. Its not about money, its about how you look, how you dress, do you do your hair, its about your ability to have an interesting conversation, to make a girl feel special, to have interests, and yes most ladies do like a man to be a man so open doors, buy a drink, call a waiter to the table, lift the heavy shopping etc Remember attractiveness is a very individual thing, what might float someones boat might not float the next but you need to be comfortable and happy with yourself as your the only person who has to be with you all of your life, be confident and happy and eventually the rest should come.
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