goodguy15 Posted February 2, 2009 Posted February 2, 2009 Well, me and my girlfriend have been dating for a little over three years but she told me I didn't tell her things like that my sister was pregnant for 7 months and my mom had told her around Christmas eve.So I wouldn't have to but then I didn't tell her that my sister gave birth to my nephew a few days ago but my sister wasn't due until Feb 16 so I was confused and in shock about the whole thing.And she asked me what best for us, then I told her we should take a break from dating and be friends for a while.It's like why should we drag each other down when it's not going anywhere as of right now.Of course I'm out of a job been laid three times in the last 2 years because of the economy.We saw a counselor for free as in a pastor he told me that I was having commitment issues because i didn't her about my sister had a new kid.I feel like crap right now about this whole thing.I'm not sure what else to do right now.We are still close friends and I'm not sure if I did the right thing.And it's a couple of weeks until V-Day.
Truly Lost Posted February 2, 2009 Posted February 2, 2009 It sounds like you guys are having communication problems. You aren't letting her into your life, which is pretty important to the survival of a relationship. She isn't just there to entertain you. She wants you to share every detail of your life. Its not unfair for her to ask. Now you two are no longer an item or at least that is what I get from your post. Can you guys get back together, or is she questioning things? If you want things to work out between you two, then you should contact her and see if you can work it out (meaning...what do you need to do to make it work). But I will say one thing being a woman myself.....women don't like being asked what you (being the guy) need to do to make things work....you should have the drive to know (at least the best you can, ask your friends) and the drive to want it to. Good Luck.
Author goodguy15 Posted February 2, 2009 Author Posted February 2, 2009 Well, I told her that my sister had a nephew yesterday.But she told me it would of been nice if you told me the day he was born.But at least I told her.We're still are going to hangout.But I need get things straightened out before I get into a committed relationship with anybody.Thats a big step.She wants kids but to me I don't know if I want kids or not.I love kids but that doesn't mean I'm going to have any.But right now we just need a break.We enjoy each others company.My life is just not where I want it right now.We might get back together when things get better for me.I just haven't figured out how to make it work thats the problem I'm having.
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