bella23 Posted February 2, 2009 Posted February 2, 2009 I need some opinion on something that has been bugging me. I have a friend and we have been friends for a long time but back in highschool I wasn't close to her (not bestfriends) The thing is she is my only friend that curses a lot and whatever situation you are in she tries to be sarcastic about it. Last year I started talking to her, and well things started okay... I thought she has changed her bad manners. WRONG! I had colored my hair black, two weeks later she did the same thing. I got a blue car and with tinted glass, well guess what... when she was shopping for a new car she said "I want a car just like yours" well I know the car is not made only for one person, but gee She got the same color of car, kinda the same type, tinted her glasses too. it didn't stop there, I have a chihuahua for about 5 years, so she bought a dog too.... and yes a chihuahua too. Around november I bought a new laptop, and she bought the same size and model, color. I bought a new phone and she said that time "i don't like your phone" well a month or two laters she bought the same phone. (wanted the same color of cover I had) She got married earlier this year to a guy she hardly knew, and now she said "maybe you should get married too." it seems that everything she does seems to be that she wants to be like me. Before she got married she was taking how she wants revenge on her ex and wants to get her current hubby's ex out of the picture... and how or what she would use to do the job. Last thing is that I've started dating a guy but I don't want to tell her because i'm afraid she might try something. But late last year I ate over at her place and I got sick later that day... my bf came to pick me up and called up another friend of mine, end up that I had at something that made me really bad. The only thing I told my bf and my other friend was that my friend never eats from the food that she makes for me, and that she said that she'd try poison her hubby's ex if she had the day or time. Things got worse, were she texts me tooo much... for those of you who have blackberry... when someone sends you a msg through the blackberry messenger... you can see if the receiver read your msg or not.... ® would appear behind your msg. (read) offcourse... but even if I take a minute or some hours to answer... she replies or starts a conversation... instantly like as if she was waiting on me reading her msg. And even if i don't read her msg, she bombards my phone with messages. What can I do, I want her to stop being annoying and controlive person. I actually just don't want to be friends with her anymore.
doushenka Posted February 2, 2009 Posted February 2, 2009 Run. Run far and fast. This sounds like a train wreck waiting to happen. You don't change people like that. They have to learn the hard way.
stillafool Posted February 2, 2009 Posted February 2, 2009 Tell her you have a new boyfriend and are spending all your free time trying to cultivate a relationship with him. After you do that don't answer her emails, phone calls, texts. She will get the message. If you don't want to be friends with her - don't even try to be nice. You are definitely doing the right thing by deleting her from your life. Like the other poster said - it's a train wreck waiting to happen!
Author bella23 Posted February 2, 2009 Author Posted February 2, 2009 Thanks guys... I think that is the only thing I can do... and besides she should be spending time with her husband.
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