chris250 Posted February 2, 2009 Posted February 2, 2009 Should I even bother dating since I don't want to get married until I'm 70? I figure that as long as I'm honest with my dates upfront that I have no prospects of marriage until my retirement years it would be ok for me to pursue dating. Just so I'm not wasting my time or hers I plan to let them know on the first date that I will never consider marriage until I'm 70. This will give me more opportunity to find a woman compatible with me. The sooner I inform them, the sooner I can move on and the sooner I can find someone who is compatible for me.
likestolaugh Posted February 2, 2009 Posted February 2, 2009 btw, I think anyone replying to this thread should first look up his previous threads...
dreamergrl Posted February 2, 2009 Posted February 2, 2009 btw, I think anyone replying to this thread should first look up his previous threads... :lmao: All of his previous threads Oh Chris... Did you tell your b- date about this, it was first date. I think getting married at 70 is way to soon for you. Prolong it. It would be best.
zenith Posted February 2, 2009 Posted February 2, 2009 btw, I think anyone replying to this thread should first look up his previous threads... why? what is wrong with Chris?
dreamergrl Posted February 2, 2009 Posted February 2, 2009 why? what is wrong with Chris? Have you read all of his previous threads? You may understand if you go through them. The ones he started, like the last 4 or so.
zenith Posted February 2, 2009 Posted February 2, 2009 Have you read all of his previous threads? You may understand if you go through them. The ones he started, like the last 4 or so. oh, I see... very interesting threads
SoulSearch_CO Posted February 2, 2009 Posted February 2, 2009 No. Don't even bother dating. All women want anyway when they date is to get married, so why bother? You'll just be a big disappointment to any woman you date because you strike me as the type of man that any woman would just fall head over heels in love with and want to have lots of babies and get married right away. I'm thinking Vegas. So it'd probably be best to keep you out of the gene pool - I mean, dating pool. You're just going to break a lot of hearts.
roxy_1980 Posted February 2, 2009 Posted February 2, 2009 Chris, You really need to stop trying to control everything about love, relationships and, well, everything else too. Let life happen. Yes, you will probably be hurt a few times, most people are. But, trying to micromanage love is futile. Live your life. Stop hiding from it! Roxy
movingonandon Posted February 2, 2009 Posted February 2, 2009 You got it all wrong. Date all you want, and when the subject of marriage pops up, ignore it. Eventually, they'll dump you after seeing no prospects of commitment after 2-4 years, so it will work itself out. Although I want to get married, I resent the automatic expectation of marriage that is so common among most women. No, the fact that we're dating does not necessarily mean that I'm thinking about marriage .
Geishawhelk Posted February 2, 2009 Posted February 2, 2009 No. Don't date. Just buy a whip, a few bondage accessories and a heavy chain or two. DIY masochism. That way, you won't even need to pay anyone!
Author chris250 Posted February 2, 2009 Author Posted February 2, 2009 You got it all wrong. Date all you want, and when the subject of marriage pops up, ignore it. Eventually, they'll dump you after seeing no prospects of commitment after 2-4 years, so it will work itself out. Although I want to get married, I resent the automatic expectation of marriage that is so common among most women. No, the fact that we're dating does not necessarily mean that I'm thinking about marriage . I agree that if I were to take the route of keeping my dates in the dark about my intentions I could probably get away with avoiding the issue of marriage for 2-4 years. Typically by the 3rd or 4th year she's going to ask what's going on and wonder why I haven't popped the question yet. The only difference between letting her know on the first date and just keeping her in the dark until it becomes painfully obvious to her that I'm never going to commit is the amount of time I'll be wasting or saving myself and her. She could miss out on the golden chance of meeting a man who will jump on the chance to get down on his knees with a ring and beg her to marry him. I too could miss out on a golden chance of meeting a woman who has the same views about marriage as I do. It may be a long shot because most women my age want to eventually get married but I would have no shot at all if I stay in a relationship knowing she and I are not compatible. That's really what the desire to marry or not marry is in the final analysis. It's an issue of compatibility. It doesn't make me a bad person if I don't want to take the relationship to that level. It doesn't make her a bad person for wanting to take it to that level either.
dreamergrl Posted February 2, 2009 Posted February 2, 2009 Chris, your views change as often as the day changes. You have no clue what your views are. You go with whatever sounds good at the present time to avoid anything that may cause you any sort of mental discomfort. You are a very lost cause. Stay inside, avoid human contact. Avoid forums that have to do with relationship.
MindoverMatter Posted February 2, 2009 Posted February 2, 2009 I too could miss out on a golden chance of meeting a woman who has the same views about marriage as I do. It may be a long shot because most women my age want to eventually get married but I would have no shot at all if I stay in a relationship knowing she and I are not compatible. If you met a woman with the same views as yourself, you would agree to never see each other again and that would be it. I don't really see what you would be missing. Just pretend the woman you just saw on the street was that woman. She will have the same impact in your life as if it really were true. Typically by the 3rd or 4th year she's going to ask what's going on and wonder why I haven't popped the question yet. Really? I don't wait that long. I usually drop some tranquilizers in the guy's drink and off we are to Vegas. Works like a charm. Next time you date, bring your own drink. I am serious. Us women, we are vicious man-hunting beasts. Don't tell anybody I let you in on this. They might revoke my membership.
Geishawhelk Posted February 2, 2009 Posted February 2, 2009 I agree that if I were to take the route of keeping my dates in the dark about my intentions I could probably get away with avoiding the issue of marriage for 2-4 years. I think it would be best to keep you in the dark. the word 'cellar' springs to mind.... Typically by the 3rd or 4th year she's going to ask what's going on and wonder why I haven't popped the question yet. That depends whether she remembers she's left you manacled down there.... The only difference between letting her know on the first date and just keeping her in the dark until it becomes painfully obvious to her that I'm never going to commit is the amount of time I'll be wasting or saving myself and her. A dominatrix never commits. That's the beauty of it. You do all the running. She does all the whuppin'. That's how it works. She could miss out on the golden chance of meeting a man who will jump on the chance to get down on his knees with a ring and beg her to marry him. That all depends where he's put the ring...... I too could miss out on a golden chance of meeting a woman who has the same views about marriage as I do. It may be a long shot because most women my age want to eventually get married but I would have no shot at all if I stay in a relationship knowing she and I are not compatible. ....well so far you want a woman who is prepared to dominate you, have only one date and have a relationship when you're 70, but not have sex with you. That's really what the desire to marry or not marry is in the final analysis. It's an issue of compatibility. It doesn't make me a bad person if I don't want to take the relationship to that level. It doesn't make her a bad person for wanting to take it to that level either. No but she'll call you a bad person... bad, bad boy, bad! *thwack!!* And the rest is best left to the imagination. or behind closed doors. or dark cellars.
dreamergrl Posted February 2, 2009 Posted February 2, 2009 I think Chris' dating life should be a reality T.V. show. We can call it "Chris' Divine Rights"
Ramrod Posted February 2, 2009 Posted February 2, 2009 No, absolutely not. Your far too emotionally dependent for dating. I see you being clingy, needy and exhausting all the woman's (?) energy and draining every last ounce of patience. Stick with the hired help, you know, the escorts and paid dominatrixes for now.
dreamergrl Posted February 2, 2009 Posted February 2, 2009 I think Chris' dating life should be a reality T.V. show. We can call it "Chris' Divine Rights" Today on Chris' Divine Rights: God tells Chris to give his pants to Michelle. She gladly takes them, and instructs Chris to wear her skirt and bend over. Chris becomes confused, he doesn't want sex, but doesn't want to make the choice in the relationship. Will he take it like a man and drop the soap, or will he finally step up Michael, I mean Michelle.
Geishawhelk Posted February 2, 2009 Posted February 2, 2009 ....In view of his opinions of dominatrices and masochism, do you think he could actually have meant "Free WillY"....?
Viking Posted February 2, 2009 Posted February 2, 2009 So much is wrong with this topic. :lmao::lmao: In my opinion, dating is for those who want something more in their lives. You date so you can find someone to marry. People who "don't believe in marriage" are ridiculous. This whole situation (and past threads) is bonkers. If you don't want to get married til 70, sequester yourself in a monastery and then leave when you think you can find someone to marry your old ass.
torranceshipman Posted February 2, 2009 Posted February 2, 2009 You do sound like a very, very needy chap, to be winding yourself up and overthinking all of this R stuff before you've even MET anyone :D:D
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