gummybear Posted February 1, 2009 Posted February 1, 2009 Im dating someone SUPER SKINNY and whenever we get intimate like I get on top to thrust against him, his bones REALLY hurt my thighs! I mean sex is supposed to be pleasurable but the pain of his hips against my thighs is almost intolerable at times. For sure I'm not dumping him over this but was wondering if anyone who's dated a super skinny guy has any idea on how to make things less painful. Like different positions or tips? Thx!
likestolaugh Posted February 1, 2009 Posted February 1, 2009 well being a skinny guy, I'd just say that almost ANY other position, lol. or lean back when you're on top... that might help. Nothing fancy. Then again, it depends on how flexible you are... there's a thing where you put your legs forward... btw, nice to hear that skinny doesn't always equal being dumped (although I'm not really really skinny... just not big)
Trialbyfire Posted February 1, 2009 Posted February 1, 2009 Take up yoga. Flexibility in your own body, will help to limit the...grind!
Star Gazer Posted February 1, 2009 Posted February 1, 2009 When I dated a skinny guy, not one position was comfortable. His hip bones felt like they left bruises, everywhere. I can't see how yoga would help that...
Dumbledore Posted February 1, 2009 Posted February 1, 2009 I mean sex is supposed to be pleasurable but the pain of his hips against my thighs is almost intolerable at times. You're not sexually compatible. I would move on, unless he's prepared to do whatever it takes to rectify the situation. You simply can't pair up a stick insect with a real woman.
Trialbyfire Posted February 1, 2009 Posted February 1, 2009 If you can do the splits, it helps. Also, in the position the OP mentions, the other way is to bring your knees more forward, relying on your front thigh muscles, to take your body weight. I prefer leaner, thinner men, who have jutting hipbones and also personally don't have much padding, so this is something I'm familiar with.
hunkahunkaburninlove Posted February 1, 2009 Posted February 1, 2009 Squat over him. Your thighs will thank you, and he'll like the show.
jerbear Posted February 1, 2009 Posted February 1, 2009 Im dating someone SUPER SKINNY and whenever we get intimate like I get on top to thrust against him, his bones REALLY hurt my thighs! I mean sex is supposed to be pleasurable but the pain of his hips against my thighs is almost intolerable at times. For sure I'm not dumping him over this but was wondering if anyone who's dated a super skinny guy has any idea on how to make things less painful. Like different positions or tips? Thx! I think I know what you are talking about. His bones hit your bony area when your on top or even missionary. There is really not much you can do with that other than different positions. You two just happen to fit in the right places. Some positions you two can try is scissors??? you're laying on your side open your legs like a scissor, then he is on his knees entering you. Like two open scissors cutting each other at 90 degree angles. another position to not bang bones is you lay on your back, close and put your legs up, have him lay on his side and enter you. Now if your pubic bones are hitting each other, now that part is a different story.
Isolde Posted February 1, 2009 Posted February 1, 2009 If you can do the splits, it helps. Also, in the position the OP mentions, the other way is to bring your knees more forward, relying on your front thigh muscles, to take your body weight. I prefer leaner, thinner men, who have jutting hipbones and also personally don't have much padding, so this is something I'm familiar with. I'm with you. The teddy bear type doesn't do ANYTHING for me. Sex doesn't have to be hard and rough, you know. Try being slow and gentle. That is hot.
gopher Posted February 1, 2009 Posted February 1, 2009 I've always been thin and never heard that....
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