Chimera1 Posted February 1, 2009 Posted February 1, 2009 I'm starting to cope with the fact that we are apart. At least I think so, but the NC-thing isn"t working. I keep running into her. My life is so much easier when I don't see her. Last friday I went out but I ran into my ex in a club. I just said hello to her, and my friends who were with her. (Most of my friends are mutual friends with my ex, so I prefer to not go out with them because I know she will be there). She ignored me and I ignored her. That was easy.. Last night I went out again. I wanted to go to a place I knew she wouldn't be, so I went to a club close to my home. I went with my brother his GF. Nothing going on between us, just a good friend and I hadn't to go alone. So we were dancing, having fun, some of her female friends joined us, and then my ex comes to me and starts yelling to me because I"m out with my brother's girlfriend and he isn't with us. What a scene, there went my mood.. What's with all that? Otherwise she doesn't even talk to me, or perhaps she is just jealouse..?
Author Chimera1 Posted February 2, 2009 Author Posted February 2, 2009 What do you guys think? Why did she do that?
carhill Posted February 2, 2009 Posted February 2, 2009 If you want NC to work, try avoiding the club scene for a month or two, assuming that's the only place you see your ex. It'll survive without you The key is not to alter her behavior, rather your response to it. Heal you.
IcemanJB Posted February 2, 2009 Posted February 2, 2009 I agree^^^ I ran into my ex a couple times at night while I was out. She always wanted to talk privately outside...so I just stopped going to the bars for awhile. You'll be fine in the meantime.
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