Template Posted February 1, 2009 Posted February 1, 2009 So for those of you familiar with my story. So I finally got my suit back today. My oh my she was extremely COLD towards me. You'd think that after 3 weeks, she'd cool down to be a little bit more civil, that clearly wasn't the case. Its not that I was expecting love and tenderness, but damn, there was so much apparent hate still. I don't care though, as I kept my cool, and be the bigger man. Oh wells, at least I can truly move one with absolutely no reason to have the need to contact her anymore. After all that I've done for her, and she treats me like this. I guess I really should be grateful that this relationship wasn't longer than it was.
thegoodlife Posted February 1, 2009 Posted February 1, 2009 Good for you. Hopefully now all will be settled. What are your plans for your next steps? Thinking about saving up some cash and moving back home? Or establish a life where you are?
Tryng2Trust08 Posted February 1, 2009 Posted February 1, 2009 I don't know your story, but maybe she is hurting and that's her way of dealing with it. No matter who ends the relationship, both people hurt.
Author Template Posted February 1, 2009 Author Posted February 1, 2009 I don't know your story, but maybe she is hurting and that's her way of dealing with it. No matter who ends the relationship, both people hurt. I guess I should have linked the post to help y'all understand it a alittle more. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t176697/
Author Template Posted February 1, 2009 Author Posted February 1, 2009 Good for you. Hopefully now all will be settled. What are your plans for your next steps? Thinking about saving up some cash and moving back home? Or establish a life where you are? Hey Goodlife, Yeah, right now my short-term plan is to save some money, build a little cushion so I can go back home and do a job search. The good and bad is that I make a good amount of money at my current job (I can pay my mortgage back home, rent an apartment here, pay bills, and still save about 500-1000/mo. I know I won't get this high a paying job in San Antonio. But you never know though, depending on what life brings, I may just stay here. I may never know, I may actually meet that woman I was truly destined to meet.
kizik Posted February 1, 2009 Posted February 1, 2009 Temp, if someone can be so very cold with you after also having shared some very warm, intimate moments - you know which moments I speak of - then this is a very good sign that they are untrustworthy and unpredictable, and a sure sign that staying with such a person would inevitably end up BADLY. You are getting to see who she really is: petty, vindictive, just downright mean. It may not fully register now, but you are very lucky to have dodged this toxic bullet.
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