OCCDAVE Posted February 1, 2009 Posted February 1, 2009 Im home from work and once again got time on my hands which means my ex is on my mind.it hurts I wish I could just act like she never existed.I guess it doesn't help my friend just text me that he spotted her at the mall with some guy sigh.im sorry just venting this pain doesn't seem to be fading at all.
Tryng2Trust08 Posted February 1, 2009 Posted February 1, 2009 I think maybe because your friend texted you he saw her you are thinking of her! Let your friend know you dont care to hear about if he saw her and please don't tell you again. Augh....when I was going through a divorce and my husband had a girlfriend, my sister would always tell me when she saw him with her. I finally had to tell her its too hurtful and please dont tell me anymore! Im sorry you're hurting....I promise the pain will go away and this is only going to make you stronger! I know it sounds like a bunch of bs, but it is true. My friend told me anytime I think of my ex to do 50 situps, lol.
Author OCCDAVE Posted February 1, 2009 Author Posted February 1, 2009 I hope I also made the mistake checking her myspace and saw something I didn't like.im going out with jason tonight and saw my friend jeff its been awhile since I seen him but he's still hot.I know im word for looking but talk about no respect ur calling another guy hot yet ur going with another guy.then again knowing my ex jeff will be the backup plan if jason falls short guess she's staying loaded with options meh I sound so jealous.
Tryng2Trust08 Posted February 1, 2009 Posted February 1, 2009 Why would you want a girl like that in your life anyway!? Yikes...she sounds very confused! How old is she? Im sorry, but someone that broke up with you and is going out with a bunch of different guys just isn't right. And posting it on a myspace? Breathe a sigh of relief she is out of your life And don't check her myspace anymore....delete her. I deleted my ex from myspace, I dont want him to see whats going on in my life, he has no right anymore to know.
lonelygurl Posted February 1, 2009 Posted February 1, 2009 Do you like to watch movies or play any type of games/video games. Something that can help you occupy your mind for a bit???
Author OCCDAVE Posted February 1, 2009 Author Posted February 1, 2009 Why would you want a girl like that in your life anyway!? Yikes...she sounds very confused! How old is she? Im sorry, but someone that broke up with you and is going out with a bunch of different guys just isn't right. And posting it on a myspace? Breathe a sigh of relief she is out of your life And don't check her myspace anymore....delete her. I deleted my ex from myspace, I dont want him to see whats going on in my life, he has no right anymore to know.Thats the thing that bugs me i dont want a girl like that yet i cant seem to forget about her.Shes 24 with a mindset of a 10 year old or at least her mature level comes off as that. I'm trying things like that lonley but it doesnt seem to be working
peteyj Posted February 1, 2009 Posted February 1, 2009 At this point I don't think you really want her anymore, you want what you thought you once had. And if she's out dating and seeing tons of guys while you aren't dating at all, it just makes matters worse. My soon to be ex wife ended our marriage to be with this one guy, but they aren't really that close anymore, then she started dating a new guy every night... Well date is a loose term considering she sleeps over there houses until noon the next day most of the time. One week she was with a different guy every night and came home probably around noon time as that's when she would text me...She still lives with me so that's why I know when she left and so on and i left for work in the morning and she still wasn't back most of the time... For me after the initial shock and hope to get back together it became more about anger over supporting her still and then the fact she was out having fun with a new guy all the time while I was just getting drunk made things worse. Sometimes it does get lonely if I dont' go out with friends and I only have a few friends where I live now and they are all married with kids or in serious relationships and don't go out often. If I still lived where I grew up I'd probably go out more, but I've only lived where I'm at now since June of last year and I spent most of that time hanging with her, a couple of her friends, or working. Her friends aren't my friends anymore and so that's the way it goes. I have no desire to be in another relationship anytime soon, but going out on dates with different females once in a while would be nice I guess. But unless I go to clubs or bars I'm not meeting that many women. And all the girls I met at clubs or bars are either too young or they just aren't my type at this point in my life to even want to go any further. I have no problem walking up to strangers and starting a conversation, but the older you get the more likely you aren't bumping into single women all the time who are interested in you. I tried the online sites and match sucks with nothing but fake profiles or people 'not into me for whatever reason' and eharmony didn't find any matches for me so I couldn't even sign up. And thats after I answered all their stupid questions.
Author OCCDAVE Posted February 1, 2009 Author Posted February 1, 2009 I won't lie I do want the old person I had but that is long gone.I was talking to my friends and in a span of 2 months she's from what I heard gone with tons of guys out.I also know in those 2 months including me she's had about 3 or 4 im not sure what this current bf is numbered.that right there shows a lack of respect for herself and her kids.that's another thing that sets me off these kids loved me and now mommy is running around with guys and bragging about it on her myspace status.sigh
Tryng2Trust08 Posted February 1, 2009 Posted February 1, 2009 I agree with you, she doesnt have much respect for herself. Even if she thought it was the right decision to break things off with you, she needs time to heal. But, everyone is different. You would think she had mor respect for her children. Im in the same boat..I don't want a man like my ex, but the thought of him lingers in my mind. He was my distraction from school, work and my kids...I looked forward to his calls and his texts it was some kind of relief for me and now I don't have it. He was not for me, but yet it still hurts very badly at times. You have lost a part of your life, someone that was there for you everyday and it's gone. Of course you are going to feel awful about it. Try to occupy your time with something else... do you go to the gym? Try something new, and it will get your mind off of her. And checking her myspace or hearing friends talk about her or who she's with is going to make it worse for you...trust me. It's like mentally abusing yourself to keep checking her myspace, you don't want to do that.
Joyvke Posted February 1, 2009 Posted February 1, 2009 Thats the thing that bugs me i dont want a girl like that yet i cant seem to forget about her.Shes 24 with a mindset of a 10 year old or at least her mature level comes off as that. I'm trying things like that lonley but it doesnt seem to be working Buy left 4 dead and shoot zombie's. Worked for me! I'm playing it on the PC.
IcemanJB Posted February 1, 2009 Posted February 1, 2009 Wow, as said before, why would you ever want to get back together with this girl? She's 24!?!??! And STILL acting like this!?!? Sorry to say this, but my ex, who turns 20 in a month, hasn't even pulled pathetic, immature crap like this. Run. Just cut her off. It's laughable what she's doing right now. Now go shoot some zombies; my older brother has been RAVING over "Fallout" for the playstation 3. Or, go target shooting. That always works for me.
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