RonZilla Posted January 31, 2009 Posted January 31, 2009 Okay so today at work my friend's friend came to visit him. She was really an attractive girl and I was going to have a small talk to her but unfortunately we were quite busy at work today so I didnt get a chance at all to talk to her. I asked my friend and he said that shes single. So now I want to know how can I talk to her, today actually is the first time she ever came to my work but she does have a facebook account. I asked my friend to hook me up with her but I didnt really get a straight answer from him, so looks like I have to do the hard work on my own So help me out here peeps
missdeathwish Posted January 31, 2009 Posted January 31, 2009 You go over and say hi. :-) Asking your friend to hook you up is kind of weird. It's very awkward (and kind of uncomfortable) for me as a woman to hear a guy say, "My friend wants to meet you." If I don't know the guy personally, it's pretty evident that all he wants to meet is my body. See if he'll invite you along to an event where she'll be there so you can introduce yourself and get to know each other a bit.
RRyan65 Posted January 31, 2009 Posted January 31, 2009 You go over and say hi. :-) Asking your friend to hook you up is kind of weird. It's very awkward (and kind of uncomfortable) for me as a woman to hear a guy say, "My friend wants to meet you." If I don't know the guy personally, it's pretty evident that all he wants to meet is my body. See if he'll invite you along to an event where she'll be there so you can introduce yourself and get to know each other a bit. Good advice, except don't go up to her at all. You're friend doesn't want to hook you up with her because he somehow ended up in the "friend zone" with her after possibly trying to get in her pants also, LMFAO! Couple of stooges you two are! Anyway... if it's possible, all three of you should go out for drinks and make your moves there. I'm not a big fan of just going up to someone who you have no idea who they are personally, and just saying "hi, my names so and so". Because it's just too damn obvious that you are willing to talk to whatever stranger, regardless of personality, just because they look good to you. OR you assume that they'll be receptive to you just because you said "hi". You're still a stranger. The only time when walking up to some stranger and introducing yourself is appropriate, is in the singles scene, i.e. bar.
Surfer Dude Posted January 31, 2009 Posted January 31, 2009 The only time when walking up to some stranger and introducing yourself is appropriate, is in the singles scene, i.e. bar. ... and in streets, train stations, shopping malls, libraries and bookstores, coffee shops, ANYWHERE you can imagine.
Author RonZilla Posted February 1, 2009 Author Posted February 1, 2009 Well the chance of me meeting her in person again is pretty much slim to none, so should I just add her on facebook and start chatting there ? Thanks
Green Posted February 1, 2009 Posted February 1, 2009 Well the chance of me meeting her in person again is pretty much slim to none, so should I just add her on facebook and start chatting there ? Thanks If you really think you have no chance of meeting her again in person then just add her on facebook... but the facebook thing will most likely have ZERO chance at working out for you. You really should have put work on hold even if you were busy and said "hey its really busy here now so sorry if I make this quick but I'd really like to see you again some time and talk so can I get your number" and if she said no to the number try for the email. then you get her out on a date, charm her and kiss her
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