unbreakable99 Posted January 31, 2009 Posted January 31, 2009 hi me an my stbx separated last may, we own home together since he left he has not payed mortgage or any bills , i am so angry he hasnt payed child support, i cant beleive someone u once shared everything with can do this, i am fighting for the house as i have the 4 kids, so many mixed emotions in one hand i hate him, an other hand i think about him every day i do feel i am getting there 1 year on an i have acheived a great deal i upped my hours in work to pay mortgage an bills, but some how cant help but feel its the kids that suffer i miss spending as much time with them as i once did, i have had no contact with him now for 2 weeks as he was playing mind games, using kids as an excuse to see me, even as much as kissing me then going back to his rented appartment, i do feel its time to move on but still think about him a great deal , he was not unfaithful to me we got in a rut he told me he no longer loved me thinking the grass is greener on the other side but is it?
toddro Posted January 31, 2009 Posted January 31, 2009 Its not whether it is or isn't...it's whether he thinks it is. As far as not believing it..well start believing. Trust me, I thought no two people on the face of the earth were closer than me and my ex, all the while she was having emotional affairs and geting all hot and bothered over some other dude. Humans are capable of anything.
Gunny376 Posted January 31, 2009 Posted January 31, 2009 Perception is reality. If you ,toddro, and I saw a car wreck from three differnet perspective we would each have three different perspectives. Its E=mc2, Einstien's theroy of relativity. Thus perspective of a person on a moving train or plane would be different from that of a person standing still on the ground as the train or plane passes. To break it down to a more simpler level, if a tree falls in a forrest, does it make a sound if there's no one there to hear it? Is the grass greener on the otherside of the fence? Yes! Generally because there's more bull s*** on the otherside than this side of the fence! Regardless! You've got four babies to worry about while "Mr. Illresponsible" gets to go off and live in his fantasy la~la land! No worries, no obligations, no responsiblity! Just me, myself and I! Meanwhile your back at the hosue fighting of the Indians! Paying the mortgage, keeping the hot water running, the lights on, groceries in the house? Where in the HELL did you get it into your deluxe brain housing group that this POS was the best that you could do, and deserve? WTF? And, no ma'am your not getting off with a pity-party of an excuse that no man would want you because you've got four children. They're out there, its just your job to find them!
toddro Posted January 31, 2009 Posted January 31, 2009 Is the grass greener on the otherside of the fence? Yes! Generally because there's more bull s*** on the otherside than this side of the fence! Nothing more true, mine and the POS she is with right now are like two peas in a pod. Neither one has accomplished jack **** in their lives, Oh they are both hell out of the gate and will talk a game like you have never seen before in your life. I can just imagine these two in a bar or club running off at the mouth, the bull**** must have been flying like a hailstorm...yet at the end of the day and when its time to get your ass up and do real life, guess where they are? Worn out from all the bull****, thats where.
PWSX3 Posted January 31, 2009 Posted January 31, 2009 hi me an my stbx separated last may, we own home together since he left he has not payed mortgage or any bills , i am so angry he hasn't payed child support, i cant believe someone u once shared everything with can do this. Have you talked to a lawyer about this? I would think even if you are separated that he should have to pay some type of child support. I feel that would be something worth looking into. I do have to applaud what you are doing, it can't be easy that's for sure. It just makes me sad to hear there are parents out there that will do things like that, just walk out on there kids. Good luck!!!!!
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