SincereOnlineGuy Posted February 1, 2009 Posted February 1, 2009 Is it wrong to ask if you can take naked pictures of the girl you are dating? Dude, off topic??? This post has no topic. You weren't even man enough to imply that the post was a reference to you specifically. As it is clearly a generic question, then the answers must run the range from young to old. Next time you decide to begin a thread, you might want to man-up and at least BE the subject of your thread.
Author Green Posted February 2, 2009 Author Posted February 2, 2009 Dude, off topic??? This post has no topic. You weren't even man enough to imply that the post was a reference to you specifically. As it is clearly a generic question, then the answers must run the range from young to old. Next time you decide to begin a thread, you might want to man-up and at least BE the subject of your thread. had nothing to do with me specificaly just wanted here others opinion on the subject it wasn't about taking pictures of underaged girls. Seriously you really are off topic and there is nothing noble or manly about making yourself the topic of your thread, if you make a thread you can make the topic as generic as you want like " do you take craps in public restrooms" and if people post in it thats the topic
Lucky_One Posted February 3, 2009 Posted February 3, 2009 That's silly. there's nothing to indicate the age of the girl, and we don't know how old you are, either. You could be 18 and she could be 17 - and she'd be underage. The age of the girl DOES have bearing on this topic.
Author Green Posted February 3, 2009 Author Posted February 3, 2009 That's silly. there's nothing to indicate the age of the girl, and we don't know how old you are, either. You could be 18 and she could be 17 - and she'd be underage. The age of the girl DOES have bearing on this topic. obviously you should follow the laws of the country you are in and if you want to get technical you could still get in a sht load of trouble if you were 17 and you were posting pics of you and a 17 year old gf in the US so it wouldn't matter if you were 18 or not once your taking underage pictues. The thread wasn't about me either as the guy who posted off topic noticed it was a generic topic thread that I am interested in hearing peoples opinion. He was off topic when he started writing what he did especialy when he wrote it would be funny for every one if I had to register as a sex offender. So yes great point follow the law when taking nudes but that goes with out saying for everything from having sex to kissing.
SincereOnlineGuy Posted February 4, 2009 Posted February 4, 2009 Is it wrong to ask if you can take naked pictures of the girl you are dating? No, you should first ask the Mayor, then the County Executive, then the Governor, then the President, and perhaps even the Prime Minister. Add the Senate and the House of Representatives, the House of Commons, and the House of Lords. But since you already suggested you're dating a "girl", well, in most societies the activity you're so fond of will be clearly illegal. And as is usually the case, you'll be the last one to figure that out.
SincereOnlineGuy Posted February 4, 2009 Posted February 4, 2009 it would be funny for every one if I had to register as a sex offender. Boys, I think we've finally found ourselves an actual "topic"
movingonandon Posted February 5, 2009 Posted February 5, 2009 You don't ask - you take (the pictures) when the situation is right, unless she objects. And if she's particularly cool, she'll be sending you nude pictures with no prompting, esp. since you are in a LDR. As for the concerns what happens with the pictures after a break up - that's ridiculous. Lowlifes that would publicise them exist mostly in the neurotic imagination of the LS-ers . Such thing would never even occur to most sane people, no matter how bad the breakup. Not to mention that most will rather destroy everything that reminds them of ex...
CandyGirlXO Posted February 5, 2009 Posted February 5, 2009 As for the concerns what happens with the pictures after a break up - that's ridiculous. Lowlifes that would publicise them exist mostly in the neurotic imagination of the LS-ers . Such thing would never even occur to most sane people, no matter how bad the breakup. Not to mention that most will rather destroy everything that reminds them of ex... Happened to me, my EX threatened me with those pictures.
Author Green Posted February 5, 2009 Author Posted February 5, 2009 Happened to me, my EX threatened me with those pictures. well that was a dick move of your ex did he ever follow through on his threats? and would u mind sending me some of those pics if u have a copy lol
PinkKittyKat Posted February 5, 2009 Posted February 5, 2009 It''s not wrong to ASK. If she says "No way, Jose!", I advise not sneaking in and taking them anyway... I sent some to my current bf before we even started dating... and about 2 of my exes and a few close friends have been sent others. There's a few floating around online too.... There's a video of me somewhere, but the guy and I are pretty good friends, so I don't worry about him showing it off, I trust that guy with my life. You really do have to realize they can end up anywhere, though. I was very "experimental" at the time, and even if co-workers or friends found them now I have come to terms with it. I had nothing to be ashamed of... hell, in 30 years it'd be nice to come across them and remember how I used to look. But make sure the girl DOES know the risks, not that YOU would show them off, but anything can happen. My mom told me she once sent some to a bf in prison to "keep him company", and the guy ended up trading them for cigarettes! She was sort of insulted and wanted to know how many cigarettes he got for them LOL.
Author Green Posted February 5, 2009 Author Posted February 5, 2009 well I personaly did take nude pics and vid of my gf and I said I would never leak them or send them to any one. She never wants to be a teacher and we joked about what would happen if she ran for office and they leaked. but seriously other then mass embaressment I don't think it could ever come back to hurt her. I would never in a million years purposely leak any of the picture or send them to any one. I told her if we broke up though I would probably keep them unless my new gf made me delete them
movingonandon Posted February 5, 2009 Posted February 5, 2009 My mom told me she once sent some to a bf in prison to "keep him company", and the guy ended up trading them for cigarettes! She was sort of insulted and wanted to know how many cigarettes he got for them LOL. Best story ever . Where do I begin? With the hot mess mom, perhaps . Even if grumbling, I'm sure she's been glad to help her man procure some much needed smokes
Shygirl15 Posted February 5, 2009 Posted February 5, 2009 Only immature people would ask their girlfriends to do that, IMO.
clv0116 Posted February 5, 2009 Posted February 5, 2009 I wouldn't do it, bc I don't want them to end up in someone else's hands. What if he is killed (God forbid!) in a car accident, and his brother goes in to clean out his stuff? What if you get married, and your 13 year old kids go through your dresser drawers to find a lighter for their cigarettes? Well it's an artifact from a time when mom was smokin' hot. A couple of my aunts were local models and it was sort of cool having those very glamorous sort of photos in the family album. Not nude in this case but some swimsuit type stuff, pinup girl style I guess you'd say.
CandyGirlXO Posted February 5, 2009 Posted February 5, 2009 well that was a dick move of your ex did he ever follow through on his threats? and would u mind sending me some of those pics if u have a copy lol LOL! Well not that I am aware of. I had to call the police about it even.
BoerumHill Posted February 5, 2009 Posted February 5, 2009 Only immature people would ask their girlfriends to do that, IMO. I dunno, I did it once, though I didn't ask, just something spontaneous we both thought would be fun. Took pics of each other and made 3 videos, which we giggled about. OK, I guess it was immature. But who cares if you are having fun with it and nobody gets hurt. Oh, and ladies...this should be a no-brainer, but if you are paranoid about ending up on the internet, then simply stipulate it's only done with your camera, AND you keep the memory card/negatives/all copies et al. Sheesh, letting that out of your hands is just asking for trouble once you kick the boy to the curb (or vice versa).
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