Green Posted January 30, 2009 Posted January 30, 2009 Is it wrong to ask if you can take naked pictures of the girl you are dating?
Geishawhelk Posted January 31, 2009 Posted January 31, 2009 If it's your first date, yes. And if you're at tea with her mom and dad. It's the timing, you see...... 1
wuggle Posted January 31, 2009 Posted January 31, 2009 depends how long you've been going out and the girl, only you and her would know. But as your asking the question of strangers I would guess the answer is NO - don't ask her, she will probably slap you
carhill Posted January 31, 2009 Posted January 31, 2009 Do you ask her to put your penis in her vagina?
jerbear Posted January 31, 2009 Posted January 31, 2009 Do you ask her to put your penis in her vagina? Nice one! A POV (point of view) while she looks up. It all depends on timing and she gets to hold on to the pictures. Not every gal wants or has nude pictures.
MSUE Posted January 31, 2009 Posted January 31, 2009 My BF does it...I'm cool w it but it did take some time to get there...it'll be your porn lol
d0ll Posted January 31, 2009 Posted January 31, 2009 I never got the point of asking for nude pics of your g/f chances are you've seen her naked right in front of you .. if a girl is willing to take nude pics of herself & give them out then she shouldn't complain when they end up on internet porn sites.
unacceptable62 Posted January 31, 2009 Posted January 31, 2009 Well, when you live 120 miles apart most of the time, nudes can go a really long way.
Author Green Posted January 31, 2009 Author Posted January 31, 2009 I never got the point of asking for nude pics of your g/f chances are you've seen her naked right in front of you .. if a girl is willing to take nude pics of herself & give them out then she shouldn't complain when they end up on internet porn sites. I think shed have a right to complain especialy if she trusted her bf who took the pics to keep them to himself and not send them to people
missdeathwish Posted January 31, 2009 Posted January 31, 2009 It's totally okay to ask. Just keep in mind that she doesn't have to say yes. ;-) On a related note: if she says no, don't take pictures anyway.
sultry33 Posted January 31, 2009 Posted January 31, 2009 i had an ex do this, it was fun we got wasted and he was snap happy.. on the downside we broke up and i had to get my big mean friend to get them off him as he was threatening to put them on lamp-posts where i lived:sick: another ex and i did a web movie... now him id trust 100% i guess if you both swap pics then it be safe
Trialbyfire Posted January 31, 2009 Posted January 31, 2009 I'd never let an SO take pictures. Relationships don't last forever and most often loyalties, trust and respect go out the window after relationships end. Having said that, if you want pics, then ask. She might give you some. If she's smart, she'll ensure that the pics don't show her face or any discernible markings.
Lucky_One Posted January 31, 2009 Posted January 31, 2009 I wouldn't do it, bc I don't want them to end up in someone else's hands. What if he is killed (God forbid!) in a car accident, and his brother goes in to clean out his stuff? What if you get married, and your 13 year old kids go through your dresser drawers to find a lighter for their cigarettes?
Surfer Dude Posted January 31, 2009 Posted January 31, 2009 My ex let me take naked pics of her. Even though the breakup was nasty, I never even considered sending those pics to her friends. Nobody deserves that kind of humiliation, guys who do that are usually sexually frustrated, low self esteemed chumps.
Author Green Posted January 31, 2009 Author Posted January 31, 2009 Its interesting to hear peoples opinion on the subject this post was made out of curiousity of just that what people thought of guy having acess to private naked pics of their gf. I've taken naked pics of girls I've been with and always kept them private for my eyes only. The pictures I've tanken have always been very soft core like a naked girl laying on a bed nothing distastefull. I'd also like to add that some girls enjoy seeing and having a naked picture of themselves where they look good. Other then certain professions like teacher or politician I doubt a leak of a tastefull naked picture could cause much damage.
whichwayisup Posted January 31, 2009 Posted January 31, 2009 The trust may be there now, but what happens if you two break up and if it gets nasty?
Geishawhelk Posted January 31, 2009 Posted January 31, 2009 Its interesting to hear peoples opinion on the subject this post was made out of curiousity of just that what people thought of guy having acess to private naked pics of their gf. I've taken naked pics of girls I've been with and always kept them private for my eyes only. ..... Other then certain professions like teacher or politician I doubt a leak of a tastefull naked picture could cause much damage. You'd think!! I'm afraid there have been countless times when disgruntled ex-BFs and unscrupulous players have quite blatantly and wantonly spread photos of their young ladies all over the web. it's a terrible thing to do. A woman should never permit her BF to do this unless she either gets them legally made her property, or she's been with the guy for over 10 years. The legalities in both situations make the publication extremely damaging for the woman, but potentially lethal for the guy. The law is very definitely on the side of the woman in these cases, but by that time, the damage is done.
Still Trying Posted February 1, 2009 Posted February 1, 2009 Took a BUNCH of pics of the long time live in GF to 'spice things up' I still have them. I've been in two other relationships since then too. I'd never in a million years share them, I still have enough respect for her not to. My current GF has asked ME to pose nude for her. Of course I'm fine with that as long as we swap - she hesitated at that part... well, duh, of course I want nude pictures of you as well! That said I could give a sh it if she posted pics or shared them. I look GOOD.
unacceptable62 Posted February 1, 2009 Posted February 1, 2009 "Other then certain professions like teacher or politician I doubt a leak of a tastefull naked picture could cause much damage." And you would be really wrong. Most women's confidence would be shattered if pictures of them nude became available to anyone besides the original owner.
dreamergrl Posted February 1, 2009 Posted February 1, 2009 I will admit, I have let a bf do this. I now ponder whatever happened to those.
SincereOnlineGuy Posted February 1, 2009 Posted February 1, 2009 Is it wrong to ask if you can take naked pictures of the girl you are dating? Well no, it isn't wrong to ask, but if she's underage, it is simply illegal to take such pictures. Then it becomes illegal to possess them too. This could result in your having to register as a sex offender for years to come. That'd be funny (to the rest of us) wouldn't it?
Author Green Posted February 1, 2009 Author Posted February 1, 2009 Well no, it isn't wrong to ask, but if she's underage, it is simply illegal to take such pictures. Then it becomes illegal to possess them too. This could result in your having to register as a sex offender for years to come. That'd be funny (to the rest of us) wouldn't it? She is of age but you're pretty off topic if you thought this was a thread about taking pictures of people who are to young to be legaly photographed in a sexual manner, and I really don't think child pornography is funny
Enema Posted February 1, 2009 Posted February 1, 2009 I've had nude pics/vids of 2 or 3 of my recent ex's and my wife. Good fun, just have to make sure of the person's character. I wouldn't do it if I planned on being a public figure at some point in the future.
Author Green Posted February 1, 2009 Author Posted February 1, 2009 I've had nude pics/vids of 2 or 3 of my recent ex's and my wife. Good fun, just have to make sure of the person's character. I wouldn't do it if I planned on being a public figure at some point in the future. Seriously mostly just a school teacher would have to worry about this. I mean even if you were the ceo of like something serious like Susan G. Komen for the Cure and like a boob shot of you laying on a bed surfaced I don't think you'd lose your job. Like if it turned out that Obamma and his wife had taken nudes in a hot tub or something do you really think that would have lost him the election. embaressing yes but the end noo
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