Tryng2Trust08 Posted January 30, 2009 Posted January 30, 2009 So, I texted him....said something that it sux we couldnt be friends...great, Im an idiot! Of course no response from him!
Knight_Ctrl Posted January 30, 2009 Posted January 30, 2009 and damn good no response from him, leave him alone he could be hurting pretty bad to right now and is like **** she contacted me. Just let it die bud.
Author Tryng2Trust08 Posted January 30, 2009 Author Posted January 30, 2009 I know...I have been doing pretty good 2...just was thinking about him and miss him.
OCCDAVE Posted January 30, 2009 Posted January 30, 2009 Meh I won't talk cause I've been close to breaking nc but come on trying u know like u told me that only sets u back
lonelygurl Posted January 30, 2009 Posted January 30, 2009 you did a very bad thing! now it is going to hurt more because he didn't respond. The silence hurts like hell. Do not contact your X!!!!!!!!! it only brings more pain and heartache and makes you go backwards or as some say back to square on in your healing:sick:
Author Tryng2Trust08 Posted January 30, 2009 Author Posted January 30, 2009 I know, I dont know what I was thinking...and I have to say Im not hurt he didnt respond, Im pretty relieved. Im use to him coming back to me,sending a jokingly text or something like that. Its just hard for me to understand how someone can be so cold I am just not use to that. Sigh..
Cdubb Posted January 30, 2009 Posted January 30, 2009 Yep. we just set ourselves up. I talked to my ex a couple of hours ago for five minutes. We have been communicating on a regular basis unfortunately. Anyway, she asked if she could call me back in a "little bit." She has not called back. She will probably send me a text later and I'll fail to resist the urge to reply like an idiot. There's no place like NC(click click click) There's no place like NC(click click...
nature Posted January 31, 2009 Posted January 31, 2009 Trying, read your words over below. That you wrote only a few days ago. You wanted this to end for good, and you say he wanted a friendship but you told him it wouldn't work. That's why his no response. Perhaps he is finally feeling the same as you. Realizing it must end. He has gone NC. It hurts, I know. But you have to stay NC. Read your words over.... I just couldnt keep a friendship with him, even though dating didnt work out. It was too painful to see a joking text outta nowhere or a phonecall. [sIZE=2][/sIZE]Well, I can do NC and I know for a fact that he won't be coming back. We have been arguing for a week and its to the point where he no longer wants to continue a relationship, which I have been trying to tell him for months! So, if he comes back to me after this, Im not even going to respond. I am a pretty selfless person, but in a dating relationship I need some things. He didnt seem to care very much asking me why Im crying...I was having a hard time with trying to juggle my life and he barely showed sympathy. I am really starting to feel better, it feels good to get this off of my chest. [sIZE=2] [/sIZE]No friendships do not work out immediatelly after...I tried telling him this is just too painful for me. He made some remarks that Im leaving him in the dust and he never turned his back on me no matter what. Thats what Im really trying to heal from that comment. That made me feeel COMPLETELY awful because Im not that kind of person, but now I am realizing everything was like almost a game 2 him. [sIZE=2] Read your words here below [/sIZE]I just think the whole breaking up and going back with someone is very abusive in a relationship. I think if someone tells someone one time, then they should mean it, it shouldnt be said out of anger. [sIZE=2] You got used to him coming back, so his doing NC has shaken you, but it is what you wanted. [/sIZE]My ex told me this several times and came back to me apologizing. After the last time, we texed for about a week....I thought it was over, told him goodluck, etc...then a text out of nowhere he said he would call me that night when he got to his hotel(he travels). He called and said he wanted to know what he could do to make things better that he felt a connection to me. My mind was telling me no, to just move on but my heart gave him another chance I like giving people the benefit of a doubt. I thought we were dating, we even made plans for the weekend when he would be home! He was not in a relationship frame of mind. Remember this, as much as it hurts. He sent me a text when we got into a little dissagreement saying this is exactly why he is single and why we are staying casual friends. I was HEARTBROKEN all over again and thats when I was finished. I cannot do that to myself again, be put through the pain. [sIZE=2] [/sIZE][FONT=Times New Roman] [/FONT][FONT=Arial][sIZE=2][FONT=Arial][sIZE=2][/sIZE][/FONT][/sIZE][/FONT]
Author Tryng2Trust08 Posted January 31, 2009 Author Posted January 31, 2009 Thank you Nature...I know he is not for me, I have known for awhile and thats y I broke things off before...and he came back promising.. I gave him the chance and we were back to square one. In the back of my mind I think I will get a jokingly text asking me I have relaxed at all, etc...I dont even want to get one, I feel he was emotionally abusive to me with all of the breaking up and now I realize it, I need to just get over him. I know whats going on with me now..I'm putting all the blame on myself and somehow trying to compensate for it--hence the text. Thanx 4 the insight
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