Flamenco81 Posted January 30, 2009 Posted January 30, 2009 Hello. There is this girl from work that I like. We have gone out with a couple of times. I have not made a move exactly but I did like come out and tell her that I liked her and enjoyed spending time with her. And she said that she had her hearth broken recently and needed me to give her some time. Now should I take this as a defeat and just not even pursure anything and move on? Or does this leave some hope? I feel like she could have told me something like "I just want to be friends" instead.
RRyan65 Posted January 30, 2009 Posted January 30, 2009 Check this; Not making a move in the first couple of dates is perfectly acceptable. BUT, in todays dating scene (how old are you?), you make a move BEFORE telling someone you like them. I'm dead serious. "Like" is almost becoming synonomous with "love", and that scares people with "broken hearts" (yeah right). So, I believe there COULD be hope. But tone it back back back. GL.
unacceptable62 Posted January 30, 2009 Posted January 30, 2009 "Like" is almost becoming synonomous with "love", and that scares people with "broken hearts" (yeah right). . I hate how the word "love" is thrown around so easily now-a-days. News flash: you are incapable of "loving" someone after a few dates. Love is something that is earned in a relationship over time.
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