RM0123 Posted January 30, 2009 Posted January 30, 2009 So my ex and I were supposed to go on a cruise I paid for. He dumped me right before the cruise and said he would pay me for it. He also owes me another $200 on top of it. At first I thought the break up was due to being in a LD relationship. I now believe it is due to another girl and called him on it, with pictures. I obviously am furious and hurt since we were together 6 years. Well, of course he will not respond to me anymore since I sent him the pics of them together (which I found on her facebook). But I want my money. It is $1,000. Last time I contacted him was Monday. How long do I wait to try to contact him again? Oh.. and I also called his parents because he made it sound like they would help him pay. They had no idea about it and said they will talk to him and make him respond to me. I have not sent another request for the money since I have talked to the parents which was also Monday night.
Tony T Posted January 30, 2009 Posted January 30, 2009 Calling his parents was a very BIG mistake. While they may have seemed to back you in this, blood is ALWAYS thicker than water and don't expect anything to come of this. Your contacting them just served to piss him off big time and make him look for every reason in the book (as if he hadn't done that already) to not give you your money. The guy is a dud, a user, a scumbag, a scuzz, a lowlife, vermin, a lower than worm life piece of manure...and now you see it (I hope!). The guy is probably taking his new honey on the trip with your $1,000. Did that thought ever pass through your mind? Read the above description of him, again and again, because it's as accurate of a picture of him as you will ever get. Now, look at it this way. How many women would gladly pay $1,000 cash right up front to see if their guy is an arsehole to spare themselves staying with him for years AND THEN finding out??? You found out quickly, yet painfully, that this guy is a total loser without morals or conscience and it only cost you a silly grand. You got out easy babe. You could have married him, had three of his kids, and then found out he was doing the gal next door and was father to her kids as well...and the lady's across the street. And you could have found out he was using money you had contributed to you and your "husband's" retirement fund to pay for birth control for these ladies and for their part in accompanying him on business trips you thought so teary-eyed that he was going on all alone. You're a lucky lady...and the only cost to you...$1,000. PRICELESS!!!
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